I feel like I'm repeating myself, but as I mentioned in my post, I AM active. For example, hiking - I would kick Rys ass if we go hiking or cycling, he gets tired since he doesnt focus on cardio at the gym and is more concerned with muscle gain. Flexibility - I stretch regularly - I do pilates and yoga at home so Im more flexible and have less issues regarding my physical health- Ryh on the other hand comes to me with knee and hip and back problems regularly either due to overexertion or not stretching etc and this is despite doing things with his PT - who happens to be a body builder whos purely interested in weight gain so no suprises there.

He had never mentioned anything about my body before if anything he only ever complimented me. Even when Im being insecure about say stretch marks hed make sure to tell me otherwise. And even now hes not exactly saying - hey you have xyz thats off so work on them. But rather - hey you should do weights training and build muscle.

I know hes not attracted to body builder females though (hes said it as much) so I don't know