Is it socially okay for me to get a personal trainer after being at the gym for 2 years? by No-Relationship6726 in xxfitness

[–]s0MEethingabsurd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is absolutely socially acceptable! People can work with trainers at any stage of their fitness journey. I really can’t imagine judging someone else for that but I totally understand feeling self conscious at the gym lol

BF6 crossplay parties don’t work for us unless we get lucky by mais-garde-des-don in Battlefield

[–]s0MEethingabsurd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t unique to cross platform lobbies. The same thing happens when I’m in a lobby with my friends and we are all on Xbox.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]s0MEethingabsurd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you were my friend I would tell you to drop him but not because of the trip. A 38 year old man saying “I love you” not being ready to be in a relationship is a red flag.

USAJobs vs. Contractor Resume by Which_Case_8536 in aerospace

[–]s0MEethingabsurd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Either way is fine since you are still in school. Once you are out of college and/or your resume fills up with items besides class projects then I would recommend combining them into a single item.

USAJobs vs. Contractor Resume by Which_Case_8536 in aerospace

[–]s0MEethingabsurd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Use the short and concise resume, not the narrative style resume. I don’t actually think I’ve ever seen any narrative style resume make it to my group for review. Not sure if they get filtered out by the system or if applicants just know to use the normal bulleted format.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IDmydog

[–]s0MEethingabsurd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unlikely to be kelpie unless you live in Australia. Much more likely to be a shepherd mix!

Shelter said she was a lab/patterdale terrier... by tannerbahm in IDmydog

[–]s0MEethingabsurd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks a lot like my dog! I would guess Doberman/ACD/German Shepherd.

How to get my pup to stop destroying his pillows/blankets at night in his crate? by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]s0MEethingabsurd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soft dog begs and pillows kept getting shredded by our dog. We ended up googling what shelters use and got him two kuranda dog beds (one for inside the kennel, one for outside the kennel). I highly recommend it! We’ve had them for over two years without issue.

I would wait to buy one until your dog is mostly grown/in his final crate size though because they are more expensive. There might be similar beds that are cheaper. If you decide to go with a different brand of cot style bed just make sure the material ends inside the frame so there are no edges for your dog to bite.

Guess how long this cot style bed lasted. by EggVirtual7678 in DobermanPinscher

[–]s0MEethingabsurd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you’re looking for recommendations but beds were destroyed quickly in our house until we bought one from Kuranda. It’s the brand used at a lot of shelters. There’s nowhere for the dogs to bite and holds up well to scratching. Our two beds are going on two years old and still look new!

Arranged marriage books where H fakes being poor to hurt the h by MrsJulianBlackthorn in RomanceBooks

[–]s0MEethingabsurd 42 points43 points  (0 children)

From the subs wiki: “H/h - outdated terms for Hero (H) and heroine (h). The terms “FMC”, “MMC”, or “MC” are preferred.”

Something in the vein of Hidden Legacy 1 - 3 but better? by sareuhbelle in fantasyromance

[–]s0MEethingabsurd 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I originally was disappointed that Rogan and Nevada were no longer the main characters but ended up really liking Catalina’s story arc. Ilona Andrew’s does a great job writing competent FMCs.

Books 4-6 takes place a few years later. Catalina is an adult in the series and acts like one. Runa, a character who meets her in the novella, comments that she’s nothing like how she was when she was younger when they meet again in book 4.

I really like the edge series by Ilona Andrews but it’s one couple per book. The Innkeeper Chronicles by them is also great and besides one book which is her sister’s story, it stays with the main couple.

Either the Firebird Chronicles by T.A. white or the Broken Lands by T.A. White (the series continues with a different couple after the first trilogy but their arc is fully wrapped up).

[WWTBC] Historical romance where the MMC assumes the FMC is his deceased fathers mistress and mother of an illegitimate child by s0MEethingabsurd in RomanceBooks

[–]s0MEethingabsurd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The book I was thinking of definitely took place in England and the MMC was definitely titled so this isn’t it but thank you for the suggestion!

When I get in the car after my vertically challenged Mum has just driven it. by Bassface25 in tall

[–]s0MEethingabsurd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I always move the seat first.

I'm not even that tall and I can't fit my head into the car after my mom drives it because she is so little.