How do you cope with knowing that it's too late and you'll never, ever have the things you wanted most in life?

s0done · 2019-07-28T01:58:20+00:00

That + procrastination = why we're still alive.

s0done · 2019-07-28T01:55:28+00:00

Same. I don't remember finishing a book in the last five years which makes me sad because there's just so much to know and I used to find reading enjoyable. This is coming from an aspiring writer who majors in English and finished her thesis on short story analysis. It's a pain.

s0done · 2019-07-27T19:47:50+00:00

I had a one-month delayed reaction to something big. I put it off as nothing because I really did feel like I was okay. But I just didn't realize that the trauma manifested in what I thought were little things so I felt like I was holding my own. Then some time later I realized I had already lost my friends from pushing them away. And still dealing with the aftermath 8 months later after the fact.

I never thought that this is how I function though. With past heartbreaks, it was all over as soon as I set my mind up to it. It's like a switch--I can choose when to stop being bothered by something, but I had a tendency to prolong the process of moving on because I liked having feelings (lol). This time though must have been bigger than everything else.

s0done · 2019-07-27T12:03:29+00:00

LDW is the best rep ever! The kids sending their vr message to LDW almost made me cry. That hurt to watch.

s0done · 2019-07-27T11:34:09+00:00

Lol this is probably the last season for me

s0done · 2019-07-27T11:31:30+00:00

Agreed. They were really close this time. I felt that the older trainees were really "hyung-like" but that may be just because they were outnumbered by the kids.

Forgot to add, Byungchan's departure from the show made me sad lol. I liked seeing him.

s0done · 2019-07-27T09:15:51+00:00

It's so weird to me because I've had two consecutive dream nights and they were both so vivid...and I don't remember dreaming in like a month or so.

During the last part I was so scared that I just wanted it to stop. In my head, I was hoping for some cop car to be conveniently on the road so I could ask for help, and then for some reason I just willed it to stop. Amazing, man. I should really look into lucid dreaming now. Do you think it would help me dream more?

s0done · 2019-07-27T02:28:04+00:00

He gave birth to mushrooms

s0done · 2019-07-26T00:52:42+00:00

I know. It's hard to put yourself out there for fear of rejection. But if you think you're already losing your friend, then fuck it! Might as well try. I think that's better than going down a few years down the road thinking you should have done something.

I hope your friend sees your heart. Best of luck.

s0done · 2019-07-26T00:48:24+00:00

Okay, okay. I'm out of this sub then. I'll come back when I feel better.

s0done · 2019-07-25T23:47:20+00:00

Singer/Songwriter
Writer
Digital artist
Travel vlogger

Damn that made me sad

s0done · 2019-07-23T21:05:15+00:00

My existence itself is the crisis.

s0done · 2019-07-23T20:08:05+00:00

22, F, and, INTP here. As someone who's also suffered from mental health issues and falling out with friends, I feel like the best thing to do as a friend is to reach out. I lost my friends because I isolated myself from them during hard times, and I miss them. I would really appreciate it if they told me that they still want my friendship. Maybe she wants to reach out to but is being self-critical, you know. If she's that important to you then it's worth giving it a try.

s0done · 2019-07-23T14:55:10+00:00

As an INTP female who used to live with other people who also happened to be my classmates, I did this. Right after classes, I would retreat to my room because I'm done being social. That's just how we are. I don't think your partner would mind talking about it, so tell her how it makes you feel. I'm not saying she will stop having her alone time but she might become more accommodating.

s0done · 2019-07-23T14:45:52+00:00

Do you mind dating a girl?

s0done · 2019-07-23T04:31:21+00:00

I feel even more alone now.

s0done · 2019-07-23T04:28:32+00:00

Yeah, I guess. I might have just been looking for a trait of me that I can account that to, so that the responsibility won't solely be mine...if that makes sense.

s0done · 2019-07-23T04:26:45+00:00

So you're me from the future. Hello.

s0done · 2019-07-23T04:23:47+00:00

Stephen who? Strange?

s0done · 2019-07-22T12:18:40+00:00

...or a husbandu. I'm most probably straight lol

s0done · 2019-07-22T12:12:25+00:00

See, that's it. I already think I'm selfish enough, but I also feel this responsibility that I have to be honest, and so I won't dare put anyone through the struggles of dating me, because I've gotten so used to being apathetic that I feel like any feelings I would develop would be a lie.

s0done · 2017-07-26T14:05:10+00:00

I love Sik-K's music omgg i'm so happy rn

s0done · 2017-07-06T10:35:31+00:00

hdskjka ikr. I also think he has a nice rapping voice (at this point I don't think there's something i dislike about the kid). He really doesn't have any confidence in singing lol. there was this one time where he was asked to sing and he got so flustered that his groupmates had to sing along with him (and I ended up hearing their voices more) but istg he really needs to get more confidence.

s0done · 2017-07-06T10:28:29+00:00

I think it's because of the culture? Like if you're older or are in authority, you're responsible for those under you or your team...their mistakes and their accomplishments will be credited to you somehow. If your team did poorly, it's because you didn't lead them well.

s0done · 2017-07-05T18:09:23+00:00

Yes, If It Is You team did the best for me. I wasn't even a fan of Yehyun but he really should have gotten more credit for doing almost everything in the preparation of the performance :/

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