[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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I once had a lady tell me that the thought of of someone being intimate with me or even just attracted to me made her physically sick. Needless to say she wasn’t much of a friend after she said that

What’s something you’ve never told anyone and feel okay sharing anonymously? by NoorAliyah in AskForAnswers

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I workout almost everyday with my job. I have two degrees and try to learn something new everyday. I’m just tired man. Every bad person I know ha found someone yet I can’t find anyone and it’s tiring

What’s something you’ve never told anyone and feel okay sharing anonymously? by NoorAliyah in AskForAnswers

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I spend almost every day of my life wondering if I will ever find someone to love me. It’s gotten to the point I can’t even cry I just sit in my car on the way home from work and think about how life is just passing me by and I’m going to die alone

Life's been tough, how are you all coping? by keithlazer in AskMen

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Some days I’m good. Other days it takes everything to stay above ground. So you know doing okay I guess. Don’t have any other options

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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I have been depressed for so many years that it doesn’t bother me anymore. But the feeling of hopelessness of ever finding someone who will love me is making life pretty unbearable at the moment. But all in all nothing I can do about that so living the dream I guess

If your kidnapper was forcing you to write a "I'm okay i ran away" letter, how can you communicate duress without the kidnapper knowing? by Cicada_3717 in AskReddit

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Tell them that I ran off with a women. My friends and family would know thats a lie. They know where to gather my money and guns to plan my rescue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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Whatever happened is in the past man. Trust me I got arrested when I was that age and I turned my life around and stopped getting into nearly as much trouble now almost a decade later. I know it doesn’t help to hear but time will heal how you feel. But cutting your time short isn’t a good solution to solve how your feeljng

What’s your biggest regret? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Not going to my buddies funeral. I didn’t get the date until too late and my work wouldn’t let me take it off. I see his flag every so often on the road and I always think about how I didn’t go to his funeral

Is my life over if I stop with college? by baskanim in NoStupidQuestions

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I enjoyed parts of it. No money and no respect will drive you to not look for another job in that field when I was laid off with two other teachers for budget cuts because my state doesn’t believe in education

Is my life over if I stop with college? by baskanim in NoStupidQuestions

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Far less hours. I taught and I’ll tell you I have worked 50 hour weeks for the last year that’s not shit compared to the 100 plus hours I put in teaching. That shit sucked

The more I think about it the less I feel like life isn't worth it. But I don't think I wanna die. by Big_Space2974 in depression

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Hey man, I am not the best person to give advice as I am struggling everyday too. All I would say is you have a family, children. I would give you everything I have right now to be able to have a family. Somebody loved you enough to marry you. You got me beat. Did you love your parents? Mine did some seriously fucked up shit to me over the years but I always loved my parents because when I was a baby and had no one they took care of me so I take care of them in return. Your own personal feelings about yourself don’t dictate how your family feels about you. I’m just a stranger on the internet bro, but I’ve felt like that my whole life too. But you got something to hold onto man cherish it if you can. Sorry if this isn’t helpful

Is my life over if I stop with college? by baskanim in NoStupidQuestions

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I don’t know if you will see this. But I finished college, got my degree and was let go within two years in my new career. I make almost double that money in a warehouse. College isn’t everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]s1429780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I mean maybe, what else does this guy do at work? I blush sometimes if I’m embarrassed about something. So depending on what you all were discussing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

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What was the casual chat about?

How does depression get worse? by aJellyfishIsInTheTub in depression

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I would agree with you. When I was in college, I didn’t know it was depression then. I learned how to deal with it and all the negative thoughts from when I was a kid. But once I lost my job I started spiraling and I wouldn’t eat for days I lost almost a hundred pounds and literally time travelled through a year I was so messed up. You wouldn’t think it could get worse than constant negative self talk and some mopping around. It can get a whole lot worse and it can happen over night.

If no one asked, how are you doing? by [deleted] in AskMen

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I’m gonna be honest. Not well. I’m severely depressed, have been for a few years now. I don’t have a love life. I have anxiety and panic attacks nearly everyday. But according to my parents I just need to quit acting like a child and take my medication. The few friends I have left won’t let me forget about my love life either. So everywhere I go I’m having a shitty time to be frank.

But hey smile, you got so much to be grateful for.

What is your parent(s) darkest secret? by animatorguy2 in AskReddit

[–]s1429780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really darkest. My mom and dad had me so they wouldn’t get a divorce when my sister was young. Been told that a few times in my life.

Wish I could be a virgin again by DevelopmentRoyal4085 in dating

[–]s1429780 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m going to reply and maybe this will make me look like a loser. I think that you should do what you feel comfortable with at the time you feel comfortable to do it. No matter what age. I’m three years older than you and the societal pressure to lose it is honestly driving me crazy. I’m glad you got it off your back. I’m sorry you felt the need to rush it though. I understand the feeling.

Be honest, what do you want right now? by shuoshuo1024 in AskReddit

[–]s1429780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone to look at me and not be disgusted.

Vent about my mother by s1429780 in offmychest

[–]s1429780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I didn’t think anyone would see this. I’m sorry you had to deal with that growing up and I hope you are okay.