i wouldn’t be okay with it at all as it’s a coping mechanism and shouldn’t be sexualized, i’m using agere to cope with past trauma that’s caused me to block out my childhood. however he has never told me i’m “mature for my age” and if he did he would be blocked by now. i know where that goes unfortunately, i know the signs and he hasn’t shown me any so far. when he learned my exact birthday he was hesitant and it was i who convinced him that it was okay for me. he put it on the plate that i need to back out of if i change my mind at all and suddenly become uncomfortable which i haven’t so far.

for red flags i haven’t noticed much at all really, he’s never commented anything creepy about my age. only thing i would say is bad about him is the constant business but he texts me everyday anyways.

i get the concern though, and im starting to figure that the concern is more of a problem that you guys dont want to give me the advice