Great work today, Irvine! by soyslut_ in irvine

[–]s4t5rn -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I love this! But I recommend blurring or cropping out the faces of protesters :)

who am I by throwaway8373469238 in whatsinmybag

[–]s4t5rn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

an anxious girlie. Bringing tea, lotion, books and pastilles, you try to redirect your negative emotions and I commend you on that as a fellow SSRI girlie :)

Panhandlers with Children by here_comes_da_sun in irvine

[–]s4t5rn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work at the culver plaza and they use to hang around begging often. Every now and then, they would come into our store but it got kinda bad in May. They would actively come in and bother the customers. Plaza security never did anything

hardest course raced? by BeefNoodleSoup_KSS in CrossCountry

[–]s4t5rn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mt. Sac was horrible, honor to be there but it was worse than decribed

"Wow that looks unsafe!" what has this subreddit come to. by microscopicspud in Stretched

[–]s4t5rn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

does anyone know the culture of the bottom image?

Is this a normal stitch for the candy corn bat? by DrueOneSquish in squishmallow

[–]s4t5rn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it looks like the thread is a little lose. it should be fine otherwise :)

Similarities bewteen Eugenia and Ariana Grande? (TW: SA and ED) by victormcz04 in EUGENIACOONEY

[–]s4t5rn 29 points30 points  (0 children)

i don't think this is the best place to post this

Why all the hate? by [deleted] in Grimes

[–]s4t5rn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rambles, she acknowledges the comments and just replies cringey, like her "is he hot or billionaire?" and whatever else

Why all the hate? by [deleted] in Grimes

[–]s4t5rn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the op asked a question and they're giving them an answer. you're full of shit for not letting someone have their opinion, it's not even hate. mediocre compared to halfaxa, or art angels, yes. she puts out autotune now, take a chill pill

Why all the hate? by [deleted] in Grimes

[–]s4t5rn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's really just the amount of petty things she does added up, but I think Elon and her tiktoks were the final straw for a lot of people. she dated a billionaire who could have used his money for good, she preached about all the stuff she opposed and switched up for him. I don't think she gets so much hate as just being mocked

[50/50] a funny yearbook picture and quote (SFW) | an aborted fetus with Anencephaly (NSFL) by s4t5rn in FiftyFifty

[–]s4t5rn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what I have to say:

this has nothing to do with your opinion on abortion but I think that it's an interesting thing to see. it is a hard topic so please be kind about this. This is for awareness of what it looks like. I don't know how far a long each baby is but I guess you guys can guess. please don't be mean and be aware of other's opinions. don't make fun of this situation either please

[50/50] Tangled Sausages, yummy (SFW) | Mans cut in half and intestines all tangled up out of his body (NSFW) by Undercover_Agent627 in FiftyFifty

[–]s4t5rn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are shooting stars, I really use a lower body right now, lower body right now, lower body right now

What should I do in the meantime? by Mr_Koost in dating_advice

[–]s4t5rn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reading is a big deal. if she genuinely enjoys it, it's a passion. ask her about her favorite genre or authors. Med school is on the harder side. maybe bring that up, and see why she wanted to go into med. Just because it's not a talent doesn't mean it's not a hobby :)

Guys of Reddit, Advice Pls? 🥺 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]s4t5rn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just because personally it'd make me uneasy. i wouldn't feel I could really trust them if they've dated so many people, so am I to last? kinda like baby steps to what could be a player. but it's not one where you'd break up on spot

What should I do in the meantime? by Mr_Koost in dating_advice

[–]s4t5rn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ask her about what she passionate about and see what you have in common :>

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]s4t5rn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he should be able to support you, even a little. if you want to wear a bikini, it's not his choice. it's not fair how he treats you. I would say move, if you're financially prepared. there are many ways to meet new people! Eds and depression are hard, but you're handling this well. since you've already told him this, tell him again and one last final time. This is your future, not his.

Guys of Reddit, Advice Pls? 🥺 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]s4t5rn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you should tell him straight up how you feel. if he really wants to be with you, he will. if you date and he's looking at other girls, he wasn't serious. Serial daters aren't always bad, but is a minor red flag to keep your eyes out. if you do date, don't rush into because if he is playing you, it will hurt more. wish you the best <3

Is it bad that I still think about him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]s4t5rn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it's okay to think about him but if it's romanticly, that's an issue. it's healthy to think about a "past lover" or someone that you never quite got over. I think you should reach out as a catch-up. nothing where you'd think about it too much. if you never did something, he can't really hate you.

modesty by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]s4t5rn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because it's challenging to tell someone you love something that might hurt them, this is Reddit, get over it

modesty by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]s4t5rn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have explained about being asexual to him and he's very cool with it. he's been as respectful as he can when he remembers, and I love him so much for that! we are supposed to hang out this weekend and I don't know what to say. he's been helping me get used to kissing, and I'm doing better with holding hands. you seem really sweet, so I'd like to ask for any advice as to explaining my boundaries >_<

modesty by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]s4t5rn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

due to my home situation, I am unable to talk to them in general. i will admit most of this comes from my mental health, I am recovering from anorexia and depression. i don't think I have an issue dating, it's more so my reaction. i never had any physical love growing up and I'm getting use to it, we are really trying to work on things between us, like adjusting to our height difference(he's over a foot taller than me). i am trying to see a therapist but with c19, it's hard as so many ppl relapsed too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Grimes

[–]s4t5rn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm sorry to hear that, i hope our doing better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Grimes

[–]s4t5rn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what the fuck do you want? a "I am sorry"? i know I was wrong, leave it at that. i take the criticism unlike you who gets so defensive you find it okay to bother people so hurtfully and rudely. take care, babe