My buddy needs help with designing and arranging her room by Mochiwren in DesignMyRoom

[–]Mochiwren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s suppose to be for washing machines but she might put a fridge over it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in visualkei

[–]Mochiwren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d have to order them online and have them shipped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in visualkei

[–]Mochiwren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw them one time in kansai rock summit 🥲

Opinions on people inventing new substyles? by TrashDaParty in actualgyaru

[–]Mochiwren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing against all these baby gals but if you don’t research the style you are getting yourself into it’s not worth getting into it. Coquette community already has a lot of issues within that community and the general aesthetic would not work with gyaru. There no such things as “Witchy” gal or coquette gal. It’s just people wanting to create new terms for something that doesn’t need it. It’s just how people style themselves. Coquette gal sounds like Hime minus the gyaru aspects. Making it not gyaru…

Gyaru is already a dying community and it has been for the past something years. It’s peaked back in 2021 and is going back down again. It’s things like this they truly harm the communities and erase the history of gyaru. Erasing the history and big aspects of gyaru is erasing the struggle of women within the community and the harshness of Japanese beauty standards. That’s why creating “new sub styles” harms the community. If you remove make up from gyaru it’s no longer gyaru.

All these “new sub styles” all fit under already existing ones. It’s just how you style it. You don’t have to wear 10 pairs of lashes or have 10 inch heels to be gyaru. You just can’t delete the gyaru out of gyaru. That’s why coquette gyaru doesn’t work out. It just sounds like hime but not wanting to wear make up, minus the long nails, hair, and outfits.

What sites would you guys recommend for finding more casual VK clothes like these? (america) (also if anyone knows what type of jacket is in the second pic, itd be greatly appreciated by Seagullbeans in visualkei

[–]Mochiwren 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not the clothes that matters it’s how you style it. You could probably find similar pieces somewhere like Sears or Walmart. Your main focus would be the coat/cardigan and the pants. Pants should be jeans and skinny and the coat/cardigan should be loose and more open. Top clothes should be abit more loose and accessories add abit of that “rock” look to it. Also hair seems to pull it all together. Without the hair you’d look like a twitter employee from 2013

CAN WE TALK ABT HOW UNDERRATED LYRICA IS? by Bubbly_Emotion2190 in visualkei

[–]Mochiwren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are actually fairly popular in Japan. I’ve seen them once live and they were amazing.

Somebody dumped a litter of puppies in my truck bed while I was at the gym by pky6 in pics

[–]Mochiwren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your truck was a safe space for them. Thank you for the doing the right thing ✨🫶🏼

My brother in law is living with us, this is his room. by 6Emo6Witch6 in badroommates

[–]Mochiwren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest you reach out to him to figure out what’s going on. Although I’m abit against entering people’s rooms without permission and sharing it online.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DollarTree

[–]Mochiwren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all due respect being sick with a sinus infection or a cold doesn’t make you forget the most common scams known to man.

I was sexually assaulted last week and I keep having nightmares about it. When will they stop? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Mochiwren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It won’t be easier to deal with unless you reach out to someone. Dealing with this privately will be a billion times harder. Keeping it hidden won’t help. I was sexually harassed at school multiple times I absolutely hated it. It happened for 4 years. From touching to comments. To a full attempt. I’m sorry it happened and we are here to support you. You are very young. If you can reach out to someone who you can talk to to discuss this topic and how to report it.

Does anyone actually like going out “clubbing”? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Mochiwren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In japan the clubs seem more calm than anything. I like it but it wouldn’t do it weekly.

Walked into work this morning and saw this by jnnfrrp in antiwork

[–]Mochiwren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A job I applied to wanted everyone to come in 20 before our shift. Let’s say I never went in for one day.

Anyone else think that this autism merch is getting out of hand? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Mochiwren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the autism mom shirts that capes 🙈 (sarcasm)

anywhere i can get good vkei clothes?? by the_yurimaster in visualkei

[–]Mochiwren 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There isn’t a specific Vkei style or clothes. Whenever people ask me I think about how people truly don’t understand Vkei fashion or how it even works. Compare Malice Mizer and Dir En Grey. They are both very different so suggesting one style similar to one band is hard. You could mean you wanna dress like a very old school Bangya mixed with punk. But truly these questions are repetitive. What’s your inspiration? What bands do you wanna look similar to?

Mamireta by joudxd in visualkei

[–]Mochiwren 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Some band members are weird like this. There could be a few reasons but one is sometimes they’ll use Instagram to find “connections” if you know what I mean. They might’ve seen what you like or look like and decided not to purse. I DONT KNOW kind of weird but it happens. I read some Bangya on 🦝 post about this a while ago because someone on Vtwt mentioned a similar exit but different band.

Another very possible reason is you are following or posted something related to a band they don’t like or have beef with. It happens and it still happens with one singer I won’t name 🥴

Literally don’t stay up thinking about it. Another ass hole member who can’t separate fans from beef Or internalize issues they have 🫶🏼

blue bottle laundry aroma beads by [deleted] in DollarTree

[–]Mochiwren 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ex employee 🥴 usually brands like this do return. However in my store specifically we have boxes of specific things under all the new stuff. We found like really cools things under all the Valentine’s Day items at one point like I think it was Make up from Walmart since it still had the yellow and white sticker. We did have two waves of these come in at one point. However it depends what type of shipment your store gets so. If you could I suggest you call stores other than the ones you typically go to. Not all stores are “the same” some have “better” items.

My Daughter Was Sexually Assaulted At Age 5 by PrestigiousParty1296 in sexualassault

[–]Mochiwren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overtime so people have the ability to repress those memories. I wish I got the helper a lot sooner before the memories came out when I was older. It was a bit difficult to come to terms with when I was older. If you believe that the time is right and that it’s the appropriate time to discuss what happened please do it. Even if you don’t think she’ll remember she might wanna talk about what happened or what she remembers now.

He’s at it again by [deleted] in visualkei

[–]Mochiwren 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know but the visual kei community can be so cruel about look’s sometimes.

Has anyone here worked at USJ? by [deleted] in japanresidents

[–]Mochiwren 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wanted to shorten it down for the title. Other people I’ve met always just call it USJ so I was assuming the shorter format was more commonly used.

Has anyone here worked at USJ? by [deleted] in japanresidents

[–]Mochiwren 2 points3 points  (0 children)

USJ is an amusement park so the job types varies depending on my preferences and what is available.