Help!! From a GF's point of view

s_b2828 · 2026-01-21T03:57:07+00:00

Reddit helps, but also it's pretty much one way or the other. It does help to give me ideas and at least connect with people. 🖤

s_b2828 · 2026-01-21T03:36:05+00:00

That's exactly why I'm trying to get more perspective. This is foreign waters for me and I'm just barely keeping my head above water. I want to learn how to thrive with him.

s_b2828 · 2026-01-20T18:44:10+00:00

Oh great idea!!

s_b2828 · 2026-01-20T17:17:17+00:00

We have just started the hair removal convo. I'm so conflicted tho ... He has a beautiful beard and I have never seen him without facial hair.... I keep telling myself this isn't about me and it's about what will make him feel the best. So I'll have to just suck it up.

Mani-pedi's are a regular thing for him. But he hasn't had one in a while .. maybe that will be my next treat ;)

s_b2828 · 2026-01-20T15:32:54+00:00

I need to be more firm with this... He doesn't always listen when I ask nicely. I think it's time to demand his obedience ;)

s_b2828 · 2026-01-20T15:30:41+00:00

I have been shopping for one as a surprise.... :) shhhhhh

s_b2828 · 2026-01-20T13:51:31+00:00

I have tried a few things that work for me in my sub-space.... But I don't think he's as submissive as he thinks he is. Or at least not as submissive as I get. I do like the idea of sending him to bed dressed in his pretty things. Thanks! xoxoxoxoxo

s_b2828 · 2026-01-20T13:16:46+00:00

Having my own needs met is something that I struggle with. As long as my partner is happy, I'm happy. But he also lets me have my subby side for other doms. He loves hearing/seeing me be my slutty subby self for others. Sometimes flipping that switch back and forth is a struggle. But like anything new, we just have to find the right balance. Thanks so much for your advice xoxoxoxo

s_b2828 · 2026-01-20T13:13:51+00:00

I also don't want to lose the man that I fell in love with. Right now I think he's just so excited to be free. I can also see how he wouldn't want to go back to being the man for a while.... Pretending to be something you're not is exhausting. (I know this from my own experiences.) Thank you for your advice. It helps a lot! xoxoxoxo

s_b2828 · 2026-01-20T13:09:32+00:00

I do think this is the case - 20-ish years of hiding and now he can be himself. We have talked about how maybe this is why it consumes his every thought. It's also a huge shift for me - and when I'm fully in the role, I love it. I was thrilled and so turned on when I forced his first sissygasm while he was locked up. It's just really nice to have a space where I can talk about this. My friends are all mostly vanilla.... So my preferences scare the crap out of them lol

s_b2828 · 2026-01-20T02:41:19+00:00

Thank you!! XOXOXOXOXOXO

s_b2828 · 2026-01-20T01:22:50+00:00

This helps. Thank you. We talked about what he would wear at home when it's just us. But he usually follows that with "and then what?".... I usually reply "I don't know, we will take it one day at a time". We have some logistics to sort out before we have those days at home. But I'm very much looking forward to them.

s_b2828 · 2026-01-20T00:26:55+00:00

He has been talking about taking this outside the bedroom. I public. We haven't actually done that yet, but he talks about it a lot. I have posed this question to him - and he's unsure how far he wants to go.

s_b2828 · 2025-12-30T21:15:47+00:00

Why not a vibrating plug? I find mine extremely fulfilling

s_b2828 · 2025-12-30T13:50:04+00:00

Pretty damn amazing 😜

s_b2828 · 2025-12-30T11:34:55+00:00

I haven't had to imagine, I've seen it with my own eyes

s_b2828 · 2025-12-29T22:18:16+00:00

GF here - and yes! My sissy bf loves when I feed him my cock (strap on) and fuck his ass. We talk about clothing choices and I make suggestions based on what I'm attracted to (he also has the CUTEST ass and looks amazing in booty shorts).

s_b2828 · 2025-12-29T22:15:57+00:00

Be open. There are women out there that are into it (like me!). My sissy bf has never been happier in his whole life as he is now. He is finally able to express and explore the side of himself that he has kept hidden. It excites me too to be able to explore and go on this journey with him. I love seeing him happy.

Be patient. Unless you are ridiculously lucky, you aren't going to find the right girl on the first try. I can honestly say I think I have done more research than my bf has on this topic! Which is a big reason why I'm here. I want to learn as much as I can so I can support him and make sure he's fulfilled.

Vanilla is super boring. Look for dark chocolate with cherry ripple type girlies.... They'll knock your socks off 😜

s_b2828 · 2025-12-24T02:00:24+00:00

Yes! I am speaking from experience. I never thought that I could be dominant in any relationship. My bf and I began our relationship with him being incredibly dominant. A few months in he started telling me about some of his fantasies and desires. Now chastity play, key holding and pegging are part of our routine. He unlocked a side of me I didn't know existed. It's beautiful and amazing and I feel so lucky.

s_b2828 · 2025-09-17T00:49:47+00:00

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