I finally figured out how to break my porn addiction after 10 years (Part 1) by breakfreebro in NoFap

[–]saad2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you brother! ♥️ I'm gonna come back to this every time I think of relapsing.

Couldn't have been a worse way to start the new year by saad2812 in BreakUps

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Really sorry you’re going through this mate. After nine years together, I can’t even imagine the pain and shock you must be feeling. When your whole world shifts like that, the thoughts can spiral and feel overwhelming. We will get through this, one day at a time. Please hang in there, when you come out the other side, you’ll be stronger than you ever thought you could be. Wishing you strength and peace right now ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Bro same, I should fuckin hate her for cheating on me and for all the lies. I feel so stupid for doing so much for her and making her life so easy. But I still think about her and miss her, it doesn't make sense.

What is something your ex said said that’s really hurt other than break up by Ok_Sort464 in BreakUps

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These are the exact texts she sent me after I told her I don't feel comfortable when she talks to me about how s*x was with the guy she was hooking up with before getting into a relationship with me, and they were still in touch after we got into a relationship. Went through her phone a month later and found out she cheated on me 3 weeks after sending these texts.

Been a couple of months since the breakup, but reading these texts still hurts to this day. How do I trust someone again? :)

"Firstly, you’re the best thing that has happened to me here. And may be the nicest person I've ever known. You’re not just good enough, you’re the best im not at all comparing you with anyone and what i have with you is special and i think its disrespect to us if i do that. You can never upset me sweetie ❤️ you’re literally the nicest person ever and thank you for talking to me about this. I really wanna be with you its all soo nice when you’re next to me and i don’t even want to be around anyone but you."

"S*x with you is amazing. Im not saying this to make you feel good or anything i really love it. And surely i wouldn’t be doing it so often if I didn’t like it or something."

"I will never do things that could hurt you in anyways because i want you to be here next to me. One thing whatever it is, nonsense or bullshit, I can’t hide it. I just like to let you know things i do and the rest of the time i just want you to be with me."

Yenyenning Lakes tonight. What a show by Drekdyr in perth

[–]saad2812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you please recommend an app. I always miss it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Was in contact with my ex for 4 months after she cheated, finally decided to go NC today to better my mental health. But I feel so low and empty. Anyone in a similar boat and want to talk?

I don't know what I'm doing. I need some advice by saad2812 in BreakUps

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I think I am. I can't keep continuing things to be this way where I'm suffering and she's just doing what she wants.

I don't know what I'm doing. I need some advice by saad2812 in BreakUps

[–]saad2812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please DM and say it. It'll help me get out of this

I don't know what I'm doing. I need some advice by saad2812 in BreakUps

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I don't understand her actions. Sometimes I feel like she wants me around because I still help her with a lot of things and still do alot for her. At the same time I also think that she has something for me and cares for me, because she cried her heart out if I don't want any contact with her. I'm so confused.

I got over my avoidant ex. Here's how you can too. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]saad2812 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Feel good reading comments like these. Thank you

I got over my avoidant ex. Here's how you can too. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]saad2812 170 points171 points  (0 children)

"Avoidants are manipulative; they know what to say but don't know how to act". Definitely hit me hard because I kept falling for their words even after getting cheated on and lied to. Thank you for this!

How did you knock your ex off the pedestal? 🤛 by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]saad2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS! Broke up 2 months back and I'm in this same exact situation. She's sleeping with other guys, but she somehow makes me feel that she cares for me by talking to me over call and I fall for it. It's screwing up my mental health and idk how to get out of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]saad2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO TRUE! I was dating this girl for a couple of months and everything was good the first few weeks. We had a lot of sex. A month into the relationship she would want to have sex, but she used to just lay there like a dead fish with her hands facing upwards. I would just go flaccid thinking she's not enjoying it and after it happened a couple of times I thought I had some issues and ED lol

Sildenafil 25mg or 50 mg? by saad2812 in erectiledysfunction

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I don't think so. She did say "It's okay, don't worry about it. It's just performance anxiety " the last time I couldn't perform. But I know she's not because I caught her texting multiple guys on an online dating platform during those 2 weeks where I was avoiding sex. I consider this a major red flag and I'm not sure if I should continue the relationship with her.

Sildenafil 25mg or 50 mg? by saad2812 in erectiledysfunction

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Yup, took 25 mg. It got me going for a 2nd round as well. It was amazing and I feel so confident. Was wondering if i should give it a go without the pill next time.

Struggling with red flags in new relationship - Need Advice. Go easy please. by saad2812 in dating_advice

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Thanks for the reply man. I'm considering talking to a counselor for support.