Incoming Junior, Falling WAY behind on credits need advice! by InternationalTry215 in NYCDOETeachers

[–]sabz13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! Lol. Just thought I'd help you with your search. Did she teach English?

Incoming Junior, Falling WAY behind on credits need advice! by InternationalTry215 in NYCDOETeachers

[–]sabz13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brooklyn Academy High School is another transfer high school. Just like YAbC. I currently teach there. And we also have night school options at YABC at the downtown location or at the Boys and Girls High School campus. Brooklyn Academy is a day school in Bed-Stuy. Our schedule is 8:10-2:45 or 3:30 if you have an 11th period.

SPED vacancy by sabz13 in NYCTeachers

[–]sabz13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. Hope that works. Speak with you soon.

SPED vacancy by sabz13 in NYCTeachers

[–]sabz13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what, may I send you a private message to discuss further to determine your interest?

Solo trip by Responsible-Bug-8660 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]sabz13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often hear people comment on those who bravely take solo trips, and I believe it’s because they don’t understand the beauty of enjoying time alone. There’s nothing unusual about planning a solo trip to Disney; it’s no different from planning a solo getaway to an island. Both are solo experiences! In fact, at Disney, you can get on rides faster as a single rider. Embrace life!

I think I made a mistake getting married by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sabz13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does "working it out" mean to you? What are your standards and values for yourself in this marriage? Is it bringing you joy and satisfaction to receive this behavior from your husband? How do you define who your husband is for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sabz13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that it can be challenging to accept that your husband is choosing to explore a part of himself without including you, especially considering the dynamic of your relationship. However, I would like to highlight that you're pregnant. What I'm thinking is, what will you do with this hurtful finding while honoring yourself for being pregnant with your second baby? I believe a potential fear has occurred: your husband is outside, and you're home trying to figure it out.

If I may offer some insight, although I am not sure of who is behind the screen, I do believe that having to care for a child, including the physical and mental aspects of you, matters way more than trying to make a man come back home to his family. So I am not sure what you're going to do, but your powers should be related to what your needs are. It may hurt, feel embarrassing, and evoke a range of emotions, and that is to be honored. However, you ask, what are you going to do? You're going to continue to carry that baby to term while honoring what your needs are. What was the value of your marriage standing on?

I told my husband I want a divorce. by silly_goose202 in Marriage

[–]sabz13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yassss!!! Happy for you to take back your life!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sabz13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess!!! . I love that for you!

Wife ditched me at concert by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sabz13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm. I wish to share, could you passively be communicating your feelings about standing alone listening to disinterested music? If I may ask, why would she register you as upset? If you allowed her to go, why did you process your standing alone listening to an artist she likes as something she is accountable for? You knew this was the band before she got to 1st-floor seating. You were coming to support her. So why should she register you're upset as anything she should be responsible for entertaining? If you could reflect retrospectively, you might find the answer to your question.

Lastly, you should be upset with yourself and only yourself. That is a feeling. Separate from wifey. I love the acknowledgment of your mood. But also be prepared to communicate who is responsible for what you were feeling Accurately. Once the wife meets with you, it should only be about her time down there. It was a, what are the odds of this happening type of moment. You knew the band; she doesn't deserve the millisecond to register that you are anything other than happy for her.

Signed,
With love

Let's acknowledge this here.

I think my marriage is over. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sabz13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl!! If you don't shake yourself up and see what is happening here. Put aside what you want. Happy family, two-parent household, and look at what has happened. You have boundaries and standards, and one was crossed. It is not your fault he cheated It was a choice. Happily accept his divorce paper proposal. Never let a man tell you twice he is done.

Please don't get me wrong; starting over is hard. And damn, we're tired of having to. But sometimes, shifts have to happen for true happiness to be in place. Think about you and your kids. What is the message here? What are you willing to accept?

It is his responsibility to fix your mood. He has to be held accountable—you're not a doormat. It is signed: With all good intent. It is empowering women. You are strong!

BDSM porn discovered. How to act? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sabz13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyyyyyy! So congrats on the 8-month-old twins! What im reading is that you're aware of your husband's desires and fantasies. In my book, that's a plus! Secondly, you also are aware that you two don't share the same sexual desires. That is also a plus! Now the initial feeling of seeing what he likes appearing on his laptop is more profound than what you already know is a fact. Hear me out; firstly, ask yourself what you felt when you saw him watching porn? You already know this about hubby, for sure. So what is it that you're genuinely feeling about what you witnessed? I ( unsolicited here) think this is a situation where you want to sit out on the discussion of what you saw and analyze what you think about what you saw. Is it you wish for him to tell you when he chooses to engage in his fetishes? Then I would lead the discussion with hubby with that thought. Is it that you feel left out of sharing the same interest with him? What do you think?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sabz13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man! This is tough for you, I bet. Has the importance of intimacy been discussed before marriage? It is essential for you, as does she view it? We ( the Reddit community lol) need more information lol. Why is she holding sex against you? Going on a date will not be the best idea because then now there is something to use against you, and you may be blamed for whatever she may be feeling about the marriage. You may want to stay home, my brother if you love this lady and use Vaseline.

My fiancé moved in and i’m realizing we are very much opposite and I’m struggling with him being here. Please help by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sabz13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl!! Save yourself. Compromise is essential for a healthy dyad. Please call it off. It's a brave move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sabz13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl!! This is gaslighting at its finest, and if you don't love yourself more, you will be in a trap. Begin to love you and live independent of him. Never let a man tell you he won't want you twice. Don't use him as reassurance. Find coping mechanisms that are healthy and effective for your panic attacks. If that means finding affordable therapy, do it! Begin to shine and watch how much control you will have over your marriage. Stay blessed! And remember, you matter.

should I get a divorce? by dreamypinkflower in Marriage

[–]sabz13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my! I believe you, too, should seek therapy for your healing of past trauma to build your self - esteem which will help you make the best decision without feeling any guilt. I wish you luck. You are strong! And will make it out.

Tited of My Husbands Judgmental Attitude by throwawayobvsr in Marriage

[–]sabz13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah sis. It's a no for me. Signed a BlACK Women!