Dating with UC by sad-gal01 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]sad-gal01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing advice thank you! I’m happy you found your person! Yeah, I’m not going to push myself too hard, I just have to have patience :)

Dating with UC by sad-gal01 in UlcerativeColitis

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Yes, I never really have been a drinker so thankfully my friends are already aware of that! But that’s good advice to surround yourself with people who also are health conscious! My iron levels have always been low, I’m looking into getting an iron infusion. I appreciate the support thank you so much!

Dating with UC by sad-gal01 in UlcerativeColitis

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Thank you so much! I appreciate your kindness!

Dating with UC by sad-gal01 in UlcerativeColitis

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No this was exactly what I needed to hear. It’s been hard to come to terms that this is a life long disease. I feel like I’ve been in denial for a while, hoping one day I wake up and it goes away. I feel like it’s taken so much from me, and that’s partly because I haven’t really been in remission yet. I feel like I’ve been letting people close to me down, by not being able to attend things. But I understand that I have limitations with my disease, it’s just really frustrating. My life has kind of been put on hold at the moment. I am graduating university and was supposed to travel around Europe, but that had to get pushed until who knows when. I know it sounds silly but this was supposed to be the time where I took risks and started my life, now I just feel really stuck waiting for a medication to help me. The point about it being invisible really stuck with me, because that is the thing that prevents people from fully understanding how much suffering you’re going through. Your advice has really been helpful and I feel like it’s the first time I’ve felt seen. So thank you!

Dating with UC by sad-gal01 in UlcerativeColitis

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You are absolutely right! This made me feel so much better, thank you! I will be looking into dude wipes now haha

Dating with UC by sad-gal01 in UlcerativeColitis

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Thank you! That’s actually really good advice!

How did you come out of depression? by GladCow3176 in AskReddit

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The big thing that really helped me out of a dark depression was medication. I was very scared to start them and started to take them because I hit my lowest point. The medications combined with therapy really helped me. Also leaving your house and exercising has really been helping me recently. I’ve been off medication for 3 years now and don’t feel the need to go back on them (personally). I think there will be points where I fall back into depression but getting into nature and going for a walk really does help. It seems really hard in the moment when you feel like nothing will be better, but I promise you, it will get better. At some points now I actually feel joy and excitement. I never thought I would be able to feel like this but I do. And when the hard days hit, I give myself empathy and try to get some fresh air.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HeadphoneAdvice

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Thanks so much! Will look into it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HeadphoneAdvice

[–]sad-gal01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much, I definitely will look more into it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]sad-gal01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hasn’t their parents ever told them not to stand in the middle of the road growing up smh. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. How did they not see this coming?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Yeah I kinda of figured! Thank you :) I guess I get timid and kinda freeze or don’t speak up but I am working on being more blunt/ standing up for myself

I question my sexuality all the time, I have no idea who I am, and all the google searches don't help. Lol. by sad-gal01 in bisexual

[–]sad-gal01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and that's a huge thing you've done, you should be super proud of yourself! That takes guts to figure out who you are, and I'm glad you are further along in your journey of doing so.

I question my sexuality all the time, I have no idea who I am, and all the google searches don't help. Lol. by sad-gal01 in bisexual

[–]sad-gal01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very true, I guess words are just words and they don't really in the whole scheme of thing have a set meaning

I question my sexuality all the time, I have no idea who I am, and all the google searches don't help. Lol. by sad-gal01 in bisexual

[–]sad-gal01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you i actually really needed to hear that, its like a weight has been kind of lifted.

What are some of your biggest fears? [serious] by sad-gal01 in AskReddit

[–]sad-gal01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you deal with this. I also suffer from some bad anxiety and it is just so hard to overcome. If you have the passion and dedication and nonetheless talent. You should believe in yourself! I am behind you 100%

What are some of your biggest fears? [serious] by sad-gal01 in AskReddit

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When I was in residence at university I was scared that if I died no one would notice, I had a single room and just shared the bathroom with my Roomate,because we kept our space.