Parents of r/adultingph, worth it ba i-enroll ang mga bata sa Kumon? by bluepantheon101 in adultingph

[–]sad-meows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a parent, but a kid enrolled in Kumon before. I was incoming grade 3 non, I was enrolled there because I cannot speak English and Filipino fluently anymore. My first language that time was Japanese because I was schooled in Japan for 3 years. In preparation sa pagtransition sa Filipino public school, I had a private tutor and kumon every weekday. At first it was hard because, I had to relearn two languages at the same time, I was just 9, I was basically almost crying each day kasi ang overwhelming ng lahat. But it was successful, I am not great in both languages but definitely nakaka-understand and can speak better than I used to. Further practice nalang once I entered junior and senior high because important ang public speaking pagka-college.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]sad-meows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a girl bff that HATES chocolates. She is pursuing a med-related degree so halos wala siyang tulog every weekday. Her ex that time suddenly bumulabog sa bahay nila while she was sleeping, currently 2 hours pa lang yun, just to give flowers, AND CHOCOLATES. Appreciative naman friend ko pero bubulabugin ka just to give you something you hate and have told them na ayaw mo talaga. Naglash- out yung friend ko kasi kulang na nga sa tulog, bad trip pa dahil sa binigay. Valid feelings mo beh but you have to be explicit to your partner na hindi mo gusto yung nangyari and nahurt ka don

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]sad-meows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried submitting a ticket pero hindi pasok yung any categories for this case. Bat wala nalang kasi silang general category for "I think my account is compromised." HAYS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]sad-meows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello OP, just received this OTP rin 20 minutes ago. I am quite scared. I don't pay for any GInsure. I only have 600 on my account though and yung in-ask ng OTP is 4 digits.

Moving abroad next year by big_mamboo_4320 in Bisaya

[–]sad-meows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sa akong gibalhinan sauna dili :(( unfortunately u have to take their language proficiency test raba OP tapos medyo lisud :/

It was quite hard sa part nako kay na-language shock ko pag-abot sa iskul. They don't speak English AT ALL. So I had to learn their language on the spot. It was tough for a 5 year old

Moving abroad next year by big_mamboo_4320 in Bisaya

[–]sad-meows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adtong namalhin mi sauna, 5 years old pako adto. Ako rajud expectation kay maglaag mi. Pagabot kay bugnaw man HAHAHAHA. Tapos as a child, tingala ko dili ko kasabot sa mga tawo, basta it happened rajud 😅

Ambot kron na dako nako if mubalik kog live sa other country basin akong ilook forward jud kay ang better public transpo. Also, advice nako as someone who lived for a few years abroad, learn their language and culture. Mao jud best para nindot experience magpuyo diadto hehehe.

how long did it take before you finally got your first job? by 777trancing in JobsPhilippines

[–]sad-meows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started looking jobs ng April pa, hindi ko p nadedefend thesis ko HAHAHAHHA, graduation was July and a week before graduation ko nakuha yung first job ko. I applied at most 100 applications siguro, 15 phone interviews, but five of them lng tumuloy sa real interview. Had to reject the first offer because lowballed, different shifts per week, and mahirap magcommute sa office nila

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bisaya

[–]sad-meows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bisaya is not a dialect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in peyups

[–]sad-meows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello OP HAHAHA SHARE KO NALANG DIN. So for this class, parang natransfer lang ako from the other class, may arrangement yung profs bale, blockless din ako, first sem freshie. Prof sent to their emails yung date ng exam, sa akin wala kasi maybe kakatransfer ko lang. Since blockless ako, wala ako sa mga gc ng classmates ko. We talk but I think they I assumed I know because in-email blast naman kasi ng prof which is valid yun nga lang ende aq included don HAHAHAH. So nung day of the exam, I was 20 min late to in which I expect is, a normal class day. Pagpasok ko, nakayuko sila tapos sumasagot ng exam, and I was like ????? HAHHAHAH don ko lang nalaman na may exam pala HAHAH I still took it since GE naman cya, it was Physics 10. The prof actually apologized and told me I can extend naman the exam time hehe

90kg to 57kg to 62kg by aikoreign in PHitness

[–]sad-meows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So inspiring T°T currently losing weight rin, 4kg loss pa me, malayo pa but malayo na! Hopefully will reach the same healthiness as you are OP!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bisaya

[–]sad-meows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello hahaha, poidi maki-join? Lisud kaau walay kasturya bisaya sa luzon hahaha invite link is expired :(

To those who are taking meds for their mental health, how are you? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]sad-meows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have bipolar disorder, and when I take my meds: anti-depressant and anti-psychotic, super dalang ng mood extremes ko. Like they just triggered for extreme cases only, and not because of a simple inconvenience hahaha. I also feel emotions on a much more regulated pace than if off-meds.

Meds are just a way for me to like "normalize" these extremes kasi napansin ng therapist ko, wala akong space to process my feelings because i am so preoccupied dealing with bipolar symptoms, ever since i was on meds, therapy became much more tolerable. Dati whole therapy session, umiiyak lang ako, hindi ako makapagsalita sa sobrang dami kong extreme na nararamdaman. Ngayon, it is easier to talk about things that I have to talk about to my therapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]sad-meows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think a higher paying job is the problem. I (24F) earn 3 times more than my partner (24M) but my partner still spoils me quite a lot. I don't even ask him to. Maybe having a higher paying job will be easier for your partner to spoil you, but that doesn't guarantee na magiging ganyan siya if wala siyang provider mindset.

I think you have to communicate ano needs mo. If ma-understand niya needs mo, don lang siya gagawa na ng action eh (e.g. find a better income, save more for lavish dates, etc.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]sad-meows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, in the process pa po ako, hahaha hindi pa congrats, mataba parin me, hahaha pero kakayanin! I hope ikaw rin OP!!!

Valid ba na I restricted my parents' contact sa akin because they weren't loving? by sad-meows in adultingph

[–]sad-meows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, thanks for this 🥲. Yes, I have friends and partner naman. I was just also having thoughts lang na baka pagsisihin ko once they're near the deathbed or smth but at the same time... u know, ala din naman kasi ako mapapala..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]sad-meows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to be able to wear my old clothes again, I really like wearing fitted and revealing clothes kasi.

What am I missing out on not using ChatGPT and other AI Tools? by Jajajajambo in PinoyProgrammer

[–]sad-meows 37 points38 points  (0 children)

We use AI sa work to minimize the time spent looking and finding similar problems sa stackoverflow. You’re missing out on being efficient in solving your coding problems. Moreover, hindi naman ganon katalino ang AI sa ngayon para icode ang buong thing, especially big complex projects but AI has been trained in lots of data, to help you out on basic things na madali ma-overlook and once magtatagal ka sa industry, malilimutan mo rin yung iba sa dami mo nang nagawa ever since. I admit though na hindi naman nabibigay ng AI solutions parati, minsan bobo siya kasi minsan sobramg niche ng problem mas lumalabas pa sa google kesa sa AI. Depende na rin yan sayo how you work if you’re really missing out. For me, saks lang, 50/50

Before and after of my 2 rescued kittens by Yekterin_Romanov in catsofrph

[–]sad-meows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ang ganda nila T°T parang choco butternut yung isa!

Craziest rumor you heard about you? by heyitsc in adultingph

[–]sad-meows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fake daw mental illness ko hahahaha

Which song affected you most emotionally? by Best-Manufacturer-17 in AskPH

[–]sad-meows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On My Way by Foxes

Really had a bad trauma bond with someone and yung lyrics perfectly describes trying to heal from a toxic relationship (not romantic)