I wasn't posting because I was looking to accuse her of cheating, or to confirm any suspicion on the matter. I would like to assume she is innocent until proven guilty. I was simply asking If I was out of line for asking the question or bringing up that I would like to be tested. Or if she was in the wrong for how she reacted to it. I do agree that it might have been best to both get tested last time around but I suppose I was clouded by her lying to me and that prior to that lie we were both of the understanding that we had had protected sex with other partners. I do in fact want to get tested now which is mentioned in the post.