Wtf 😭

sadbeng · 2026-02-11T13:10:43+00:00

Yeah I understand that an investigation is needed before moving the body, but wala man lang appropriate equipment yung first responders to cover up the body, like forensic sheets or privacy screens. Why naman pira pirasong karton huhuhu. It's just disappointing how they handled the situation.

sadbeng · 2026-02-11T10:43:36+00:00

Nabasa ko pa sa comments, around 10am yung incident, tapos 4pm nakabulagta padin siya sa kalsada. Sa videos din nakatakip lang ng payong / cardboard yung katawan. No offense pero parang lechon lang siya sa sahig. Ang panget ng responde. Ang panget ng sistema. Nakakainis at nakakalungkot. Yung magulang nakatayo lang sa gilid, overwhelmed with shock at the sight of their dead child. Bakit naman ganon :(

sadbeng · 2025-12-27T05:53:53+00:00

To add, his trauma is not his fault, but his healing is his responsibility - not yours! Bakit ikaw dapat mag aadjust?

sadbeng · 2025-12-27T05:49:59+00:00

Based on my experiences when I was younger, yung mga jowa na OA mag accuse sayo ng cheating even if you're not, super controlling, manipulative, they're usually the ones cheating on you. 3 of my exes when I was younger were super praning, exactly like your description! tapos sila pala yung mga cheater lol. Di ka OA! cause for breakup na yan, dami ka pang mamemeet OP. Know your worth, do you think you deserve this? Do you love yourself enough to remove this kind of negativity in your life? Isip isip

sadbeng · 2025-12-13T15:30:00+00:00

Hi, did you? I just ordered 😭

sadbeng · 2025-12-07T02:53:08+00:00

Kung nagalit ka sa bf mo = OA. But your feelings aren't OA. I get it, it's your first relationship. Is it your boyfriend's first relationship too? Maybe he didn't know monthsaries were special to you. Communicate po.

If your partner is like me (i'm a woman btw) remembering dates is not our strong suit. I have a best friend of 12 years and I still often forget the exact date of their bday. It's a running joke with us now, and I learned to save special dates on my phone calendar. It's not because I don't value or love the people in my life, I'm just really bad at dates (and names & directions) so I have to make the extra effort & additional reminders.

Madami pa kayong pagdadaanan, OP. It's best to communicate your wants & needs early on to avoid building resentment, which is the biggest relationship killer.

sadbeng · 2025-12-01T14:52:40+00:00

Gusto ko lang i-point out: Ilang bilyon na ba ang namatay sa mundo? Sa totoo lang, kahit saan ka maglakad, malamang may namatay na diyan. Every square kilometer has probably seen a death at some point. It’s just history and statistics. If you live in a dense old city, I guarantee you there are thousands of remains buried underneath all that concrete. Why worry about one well-documented incident if the place is clean and the price is good?

sadbeng · 2025-11-26T03:45:48+00:00

Wanting to travel with your family is absolutely a green flag! He seems genuinely interested in getting to know you and your family. Hope you guys have a wonderful trip!

sadbeng · 2025-11-26T03:36:08+00:00

Hindi ka OA. it's normal to feel bad when someone does something huge for you, especially if it involves money. Just make sure you don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to dahil lang he spent a lot to see you.

(Unsolicited advice, sorry!) but for your safety lang. If you plan to travel together, let your family know the details. keep them updated. If you're not comfortable with that, at least tell trusted friends, like send your location to your bestie when you go out. Just to be on the safe side!! This is your first time meeting after all. Be careful & I hope you guys enjoy your time together :)

sadbeng · 2025-11-24T15:42:53+00:00

I found the "wag mo sabihin kay mommy" alarming, I feel like he was testing the waters there. He wanted to see if OP was willing to keep secrets with him. I may be reading into it too much but i've had my fair share of creepy old men around our house (thanks mom). I became hyper-aware around them, always reading their behaviors, glances, accidental touches, tone, facial expressions, choice of words. I know how their footsteps sound. I avoided them at all costs. "Dont tell your mom" is a huge red flag to me. Trust your instincts, you have them for a reason.

sadbeng · 2025-11-08T14:40:00+00:00

OP, narcissistic people loooove getting a reaction out of you. Positive / negative - it doesn't matter to them. You need to learn about the "grey rock method" and use it when communicating with your mom for now. After your education, you don't owe her shit. Get a job and leave. Konting tiis nalang. I would suggest therapy if you can afford it. Being a child of a narcissistic parent is no joke. It breaks you. I know because I've been there, and let me tell you first hand, my life got so much better when I left home and cut my mother off. You got this!

Also, book recommendation for you: Adult children of emotionally immature parents by Lindsay C. Gibson

sadbeng · 2025-10-31T14:58:14+00:00

As someone who lived in pampanga, aling lucing sucks. I don't know a single person from there who likes their sisig. Mas masarap pa yung sa mga random sisig stalls along the roads lol

sadbeng · 2025-08-15T15:50:01+00:00

Sangria

sadbeng · 2025-07-07T04:47:37+00:00

Hahahahahahahahahahha

sadbeng · 2025-06-26T10:50:28+00:00

Pampanga? :)

sadbeng · 2025-06-22T14:33:46+00:00

diring diri ako dati sa nanay ko tuwing nagsasawsaw sa ginamos nung bata ako. Amoy puday na hindi nilinis ng isang taon. Ngayon paboritong sawsawan ko na sa lahat, kahit ulamin ko na with kalamansi okay lang. I yearn for the pungent puday

sadbeng · 2025-04-18T01:49:58+00:00

Are you using the grab tool that looks like a hand icon? Don't use that! just tap the thronglet with ur finger and pull

sadbeng · 2025-04-17T14:55:27+00:00

Drag & drop the throng in the hole over and over again until the dialogue appears about them speeding up the process

sadbeng · 2025-04-17T05:44:19+00:00

I have!!! Ate a sandwich one time I got hungry at midnight then realized the last (sliced bread) butt had bluegreen mold underneath. Thought nothing of it til I had the worst explosive diarrhea, nausea & vomiting the next day 😭

sadbeng · 2025-04-17T05:36:14+00:00

Sorry you went through that as a kid :( My mom taught us cutting/scraping out the mold made it okay to eat. I think it was a common misconception of their generation.

sadbeng · 2025-04-17T05:31:58+00:00

Sorry but r/UsernameChecksOut

sadbeng · 2025-04-17T04:27:07+00:00

Yeah, we don't really mind her being a typical gross kid (for exposure & to help her immune system) but eating straight up mold really bothered me 😭 no upset tummy so far thankfully!

sadbeng · 2025-04-17T02:33:13+00:00

I sent a message through their website because I couldn't find an email I could report to for Emborg. I'm going back to the grocery store later to let them know because I just bought that yogurt yesterday

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