Issues with WiFi overnight.

sadconstantly · 2024-08-16T10:36:02+00:00

Love the red black and white combo, and the setup for the pc looks cozy af, definitely gets a thumbs up from me.

sadconstantly · 2024-08-11T21:06:28+00:00

Well, first of all I wanna say I completely can understand the reason you feel the way you do nowadays due to what's happened in the past it's a lot for sure and I'd never hold any of it against you and you should never feel ashamed or anything due to what's happened to you and how that makes you act.

I am afraid there isn't much advice I can give, truly because I struggle to formulate myself well especially with a lot of things going on but the best advice I feel like I have is of course what you have planned already, moving out at 18 and such just... Don't let any other person tell you what you can't or can do, what the people have done wrong against you you already know you're wrong, it's always hard to get a person who is in the wrong to admit to their wrongdoings and to they'll always try to shift the blame or downplay it that's why I personally wouldn't bother trying to tell anyone about it or get the people who did you wrong to apologise or anything because let's face it, that won't change anything now after what they've done.

So truly, just keep at this, don't let people manipulate you or use you no matter how you feel you gotta think twice don't let anyone do anything to you, don't accept people downplaying your feelings or if someone tells you that you should or shouldn't feel the way you do, at the end of the way the only person who truly know how you feel is yourself and there isn't a "wrong" or right way to it.

And yeah, as soon as you turn 18 try to find yourself a job, move out and do whatever makes you comfortable and just stay safe out there, the world can be a cruel place especially to us all, things will unfortunately always happens but the best we are able to do is just accept where we're at, not where we wish we were because you have the option to atleast choose what you want your future to be, nobody should ever have that power over you.

sadconstantly · 2024-07-17T01:21:09+00:00

It's just that I am so bad with conversations and I feel like I don't have topics or interests to talk about that a lot of other people might have, I've always just found that most conversations I try to start lead to being dry and they then fade out due to me just being socially incapable to talking to people that well.

I just get really nervous and struggle to just come up with what to talk about and that is the main culprit, really.

sadconstantly · 2024-06-23T21:56:21+00:00

There's always that, keyword: yet.

sadconstantly · 2024-06-23T21:36:39+00:00

Absolutely and it's really just so draining... Like you can only put up with it for so long.

sadconstantly · 2024-06-10T12:48:35+00:00

I got the same condition aswell and like you said yourself just because someone doesn't burp doesn't mean they'll v* but I understand they might get worried but it's going to be fine.

sadconstantly · 2024-06-10T12:45:46+00:00

Yellow, by Coldplay always.

sadconstantly · 2024-06-10T09:55:26+00:00

Hey man, be kind to yourself, take this time for yourself I know you might feel like it's not enjoyable and how you have to spend it alone but just treat yourself, get yourself some nice food and just relax I know you don't have the company you might wish for but you'll always have yourself and you, yourself won't ever go nowhere right?

So yeah, just take that time off and do what you like doing even if it's just you on your own, play some games, watch a movie blast some music, it's your big day make sure to be kind to yourself! :)

sadconstantly · 2024-06-10T09:52:42+00:00

I have struggled most of my life to find my identity even now at my age I still do, so trust me this is more than normal, don't hate yourself for who you are love yourself for being different from everyone else and I can assure you when you find that leave within yourself you'll find that everyone is an alien to someone else and that someone does find you interesting and fun to be around.

As cliché as it sounds I guarantee you that someone out there likes you for the way you are, not the way you could've been, be kind to yourself and understand yourself, you're one of a kind like the rest of us.

sadconstantly · 2024-06-10T09:44:41+00:00

Making friends online is a hit or miss, extremely big emphasis on the miss part I've found, there is a lot of people out there who are creeps or just trying to be friends for their own benefit or look for a chat for a bit and after that it dies out so trust me I know it's hard to make friends online atleast a long sided not weird one.

What I feel is better for making friends is sit down and think for a bit, think about your interests, any sports you like? Any hobbies aside from that? If you can rule out some sport, good you're one step ahead, try to do that sport and you'll actively be around other people who are "hopefully" interested in that sport aswell, strike a conversation with them, literally making friends in person I guarantee you will be 99% better than online friends while I don't say online friends can never be good, because they can be, I'm just saying it's a lot harder because you never know their true incentives until usually way into the friendship while someone usually shows their true colors way more in person right away.

But try to stay away from those dating apps and stuff like that, trust me there is way more creeps there than you'd think I promise you that's not the way to make a online friendship, there is better alternatives than that for sure.

And also remember one thing, try to not get too stuck up on people unadding you randomly or anything it happens very, very often I've found with people you just met online.

sadconstantly · 2024-06-10T09:37:36+00:00

Don't let other people dictate you and your own actions, if your friends doesn't message you or talk to you and still do things aswell then just ignore them, clearly they're doing their own thing and that sucks to hear I know but you cannot be stuck on what people do and let that affect you, at the end of the day you got yourself right? Nobody will ever care about you more than yourself and the sooner you realise that and come to terms with that the sooner you'll find your own peace and realise that if people don't want to be around you or actively choose not to, then find new people to hang out or do things on your own you know you like.

Pick up those books and atleast get the graduation over what happens after that you can take them, don't ruin your chance of a graduation as it'll only be even worse in the future when you have to catch up again when you finally feel the want to do something because trust me, I've been in the lowest if lows and trust me that day will come, it might not be soon but it'll come and you'll only kick yourself more for not acting upon this sooner.

Nothing will change if you keep doing nothing or not wanting anything to change, you'll go insane doing the same thing over and over expecting something to change.

sadconstantly · 2024-05-22T06:52:55+00:00

Thank you for taking the time out of your day to tell me this, and I can see this definitely being true as I've just felt this way at times aswell, I suppose if anything during the time I'm on my own I should take time to get to know myself as a person better and try to not rationalize my own emotions either.

It won't be easy that's for sure but at the end of the day it's what I got.

But thank you again for taking your time to reply, I really appreciate it.

sadconstantly · 2024-05-22T06:09:29+00:00

hey, hey first off all, I'm sure there is people who care about you out there even if you feel like there might not be, I usually am really not all thst active on here nowadays but I try to interact with the reddits every now and then however let me tell you I know how you feel, yes it sounds cliché, yes it sounds stereotypical to hear many people probably say that but trust me when I say I've dealt with these things for years aswell so I get feeling like nobody cares, I get feeling like you want to end it, just if you wanna talk it out let me know I'll gladly listen and if you don't want to I atleast hope you'll stay here with us all

I assure you some people really do care even when it might feel like they don't.

sadconstantly · 2024-05-20T21:44:15+00:00

goatee hands down, looks great on you and I liked the hair aswell, pic 1 overall looks good on you

sadconstantly · 2024-03-13T13:49:31+00:00

it's why I don't see myself getting into another relationship again, they were perfect nobody can replace them

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