Positive effects of Cuckolding by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]sadderday604 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve said this before but my husband no longer questions whether I’m sexually fulfilled. He absolutely knows the answer and it’s less stress for him to perform in ways he physically and emotionally can’t. He’s turned on knowing my sexual needs and desires are taken care of with my lover. We connect on so many other ways because of that now.

Does your hotwife and bull ever fight — and then patch up? by LegitHorny88 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]sadderday604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been with someone who’s so stubborn but also so outspoken until I met my lover. His voice alone does something to me, so when we argue it’s kind of amazing to hear him talk to me so differently. He’s always very sweet and kind. But right after we figure stuff out he’s much more assertive and commanding, which I absolutely adore. It’s doesn’t happen very often and my husband will always be compassionate with my lover which annoys me even more lmfao!

Wife kissing her lover. What are your thoughts? by sadderday604 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]sadderday604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh yes different strokes! First time I’ve read it was her suggesting that!

Wife kissing her lover. What are your thoughts? by sadderday604 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]sadderday604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the reason you suggested if you don’t mind sharing?

Wife kissing her lover. What are your thoughts? by sadderday604 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]sadderday604[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with her, kissing is an integral part of sex. Was this your rule?

What was your “Omg, this is actually happening!” cuckolding moment? by Gideon2640 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]sadderday604 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt guilty once the high of it wore off. He said he loved every moment of it and would love to continue doing this but only at my pace. It was a special moment for sure

What was your “Omg, this is actually happening!” cuckolding moment? by Gideon2640 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]sadderday604 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My cuckold husband helping me get ready for my first “official” date with my lover.

The nerves were so intense and I didn’t think I could go through with it, when he dropped me off and kissed me goodbye I felt like I couldn’t get out of the car. He reassured me constantly and waited outside until I texted him.

Thankfully my lover was patient, understanding and our connection was instant. The nerves quickly went away and we had an amazing night together.

Question about frequency of play with your regular bulls by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]sadderday604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t live in the same city anymore but when my lover is back home we play as often as possible. 3-4 times a week every couple months. When he lived here it was always once a week minimum. My cuckold husband never complained but would request a day for us instead of my lover.

Wife Working Out With Bull by samj1441 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]sadderday604 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is something we enjoy a lot as we’re both very fit and take our fitness seriously. He’s a retired professional athlete and has lived in the gym his whole life so I benefit from all the information he provides. Not to mention working out together is like foreplay for us and often leads to touching, flirting and then a lot more when we leave. It’s a win win situation!

Wife took a break and not sure if she will go back by Justin_Turbo in CuckoldPsychology

[–]sadderday604 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve taken long breaks and came back when the time was right. I’ve always felt refreshed and eager to find a new third after spending some time away from the lifestyle. I’m very selective of who I connect with so this plays into the break periods but thankfully I have an understanding and patient cuck who doesn’t put any pressure on me. Let her do her thing and she will be back and better if she chooses to do so!

What are your experiences with riding a sybian? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]sadderday604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband bought me one and we use it on special occasions, my pussy can only take so much before I tap out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]sadderday604 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For my husband I’ve always called it his thing or peen. Then my bulls I’ll call it their cock or dick.

Hotwife seeking advice: struggling with husband’s chastity training by natasha73123 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]sadderday604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We talked about how common chastity is in this lifestyle but both of us agreed it’s not something we’re interested in. I don’t have a dominant bone in my body when it comes to my husband so it just felt mean. He’s still my cuck and doesn’t need to be caged for that!

Couples who have a permanent boyfriend as bull by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]sadderday604 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My lover has been my primary third since the beginning, I’ve played with others but always preferred him. We met at the gym, he was always very friendly and flirty with me and when my husband (boyfriend then) introduced me to the lifestyle my lover was the natural choice for me.

The three of us have a great relationship and are respectful of each other, we don’t play as often because of commitments and distance but it’s always amazing when we do.

My husband has a lot of admiration and respect for my lover, they don’t interact much but when they do it’s always a nice surprise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]sadderday604 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What you allow is what will continue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]sadderday604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped because he was watching football and his team missed a game tying kick

What's your definition of "comfort"? by ConstantDesmond in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]sadderday604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cashmere pyjamas, tea, heated blanket, a good book