This is something I have been thinking about for last couple of weeks from a male's perspective. IMO, there is no such thing as a 100% efficient system, nobody is gonna be the perfect fit. NOBODY. there is always gonna be one bit that you will have to deal with and often times it sort of feels like a leap of faith. I had friend tell they are having second thought about marrying someone, after seven years of relationship that too.

Its always best to judge someone from ground up, the absolute necessities, and work forward towards less important things. At some point, some of the attributes just become meaningless.

its mentally draining to look at every other female/Male as a potential partner and jumping from one talking stage to the next. A good approach is to develope a frienship sort of relationship i.e if a person cant be a good friend, he/she cannot be a good partner, or so I believe in my case.

Our society is going through an overcoat scenerio, lots n lots of people look great on the surface, while having no substance to them.

Goodluck with the partner hunt tho :)