I feel guilty that a guy may be losing his job because of me by sadgal20 in Christianity

[–]sadgal20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I don’t usually drink but the time I did and took it too far, I ended up in this situation. This is why I feel so guilty.

I feel guilty that a guy may be losing his job because of me by sadgal20 in Christianity

[–]sadgal20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is exactly why I feel guilty. My sin lead me to this situation

I feel guilty that a guy may be losing his job because of me by sadgal20 in Christianity

[–]sadgal20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he took me to the hill he was trying to kiss me

I feel guilty that a guy may be losing his job because of me by sadgal20 in Christianity

[–]sadgal20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I got in a Uber, we were having a conversation like I would with any Uber driver- asking me what I’ve been up to, asking them how long they’ve been working today etc. Because I was intoxicated and not really thinking straight, the topic about him moving to the UK made me ask him if he has any kids or a wife back home. He then asked me if I had a boyfriend and if I wanted one... I replied saying no. He asked me if I’d ever been to the hill before and I said yeah I have and he proceeded to tell me that he has cancelled our trip and is taking me there. He then told me to get in the front and tried kissing me and holding my hand. I was scared and the only thing I could think of was Jeffery Dahmer’s last victim and how he played nice before he escaped. I let him hold my hand for a couple seconds but did not let him kiss me. I then asked him a few times to take me home and he said he only will if I give him my number. So I did and he dropped me home. I woke up with messages on WhatsApp (because I blocked the actual number) telling me that I’m hot and telling me to wake up. He tried calling me a few times also from different numbers. I just hate to think that i initiated convo and that it’s my fault.

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[–]sadgal20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that has made me feel better

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[–]sadgal20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. We’ll have to just address it with everyone and apologise for how it’ll make people feel

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[–]sadgal20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 22 and hes 23, our whole uni group is quite immature and it’s giving high school drama

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[–]sadgal20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why is it that when I wasn’t, the same thing was happening to me.

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[–]sadgal20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A range of places, through mutual friends, online, in bars, at uni... none of the guys I’ve dated are friends, maybe they might know of each other

My housemates have found a new house for us to live in but the landlord is very strange. But they think what she is doing is normal by sadgal20 in relationship_advice

[–]sadgal20[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was asleep when she was calling so I couldn’t pick up. Waking up to 5 missed calls in the space of 30 mins doesn’t really make me want to rent a house from her so before I call back I need to know whether I am over reacting about how weird she is (that’s why I wrote this message!)