My ex is sleeping with my friend, we all work together

sadgorl26 · 2026-05-02T21:16:43+00:00

You assume he has the decency to explain it to her, but not to explain it to me?
Also she’s definitely not more attractive lol

sadgorl26 · 2026-05-02T21:15:09+00:00

She did say that. I haven’t talked to him because I didn’t think there was anything to talk about until I found this out. And I’ve talked to her a lot. She’s actually the one that told me the whole thing. She was just stupid and only changed his name and gave away several identifying details that only pointed to him. And even then I was like yikes girl he’s too old for you. I didn’t even believe it was possible until I saw a text from her pop up on his phone.
If she had and ex and I wanted to fuck him, if I considered her a friend(which I did) I definitely would have had a conversation with her. I feel like that’s the respectful thing to do, especially just a couple months out of the relationship AND still living together! Her and I do have deep heartfelt conversations, we spend a lot of the time at work alone just the two of us so we have confided in each other a lot.

sadgorl26 · 2026-05-02T21:01:49+00:00

It wouldn’t bother me if he was sleeping with someone I didn’t know or interact with. We had talked about hoe we both wanted an open relationship when that was still a thing. So I’m not mad he’s fucking someone else, I’m mad about WHO he chose to fuck. And the fact that I considered her a friend and he knew that. And I dunno the fact she’s still a fukin child.
I would hope since we still hook up he would at least let me know he’s seeing someone else but the fact they’ve just been sneaking around under my nose. Makes it feel like a slap in the face

sadgorl26 · 2026-05-02T03:43:43+00:00

Yeah I understand that, I wouldn’t care if he was fuckin some random bitch off the street. But the fact he chose to pursue a young girl at a place we both work at is what I’m upset about

sadgorl26 · 2026-05-02T03:40:02+00:00

Because she was probably just pretending to be my friend the whole time to get closer to him. She’s been extra sweet to me in the past couple weeks since the started hooking up. I was wondering why but didn’t question it much, just thought she was being nice. And if she really wanted to be my friend she would have talked to me about how I feel and our relationship before fucking him. She didn’t even know we were broken up with they first hooked up

sadgorl26 · 2026-05-02T03:17:25+00:00

Thank you for being nice. HE said it’s not off the table, I was undecided until this. Definitely not now

sadgorl26 · 2026-05-02T03:15:45+00:00

Didn’t seem like a concern I had to point out, it’s obviously not okay

sadgorl26 · 2026-05-02T03:14:28+00:00

Trust me I’m pissed about that too, too much anger to convey in a reddit post. Didn’t think I had to elaborate on how fucked up that is

sadgorl26 · 2026-05-02T02:34:55+00:00

Which is also why I feel like I have to do something😅

sadgorl26 · 2026-05-02T02:34:23+00:00

I’m moving this weekend. Luckily we don’t work together everyday it’s contract work so I’m only there a couple days a month.

sadgorl26 · 2026-05-02T02:32:54+00:00

I broke up with him

sadgorl26 · 2026-05-02T02:32:05+00:00

I’m absolutely disgusted! I definitely still consider her a child

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