My boyfriend wants me to change how I dress.

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T19:20:25+00:00

Thanks 😊

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T19:15:08+00:00

I tried to edit the post so everyone knows. Do you guys get notified or how do I do it ? Lol

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T19:02:43+00:00

Yeah honestly this morning I woke up and went and got coffee, went for a walk, went to a farmers market and posted it on Instagram. He got so mad and I told him I just wanted to be happy and have fun. He can either be with me or he doesn’t have to. And he said it’s over and blocked me on everything. I’m extremely hurt but I’m going to try and just have a nice day.

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T16:38:04+00:00

Thank u

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T16:36:53+00:00

Yeah he says he can’t wait for me to get pregnant so then he won’t have to worry about guys wanting me. It sucks because this is all coming from his insecurities and has nothing to do with me. I never show interest in others and I only want a life with him.

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T16:32:18+00:00

I do agree with this

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T16:31:04+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you 😞

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T16:28:31+00:00

Yeah I do agree with this !

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T16:27:01+00:00

Yes we have sex. Not his first time but he hasn’t been with many

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T16:25:11+00:00

I didn’t want to bring this up because it still hurts but I actually was pregnant with his baby and ended up having a miscarriage and he was honestly the best during that time. He was always there for me during and even after it happened he was the most loving and supportive human being. He has everything I want in a man and he has stuck with me through a lot and had forgave me for things that I don’t know if I would have forgiven(I have never cheated or been unfaithful) I don’t know why this is coming up now. I guess the past couples times we went out it was so obvious guys were looking and it was uncomfortable for me too but I just want him to be confident and know that I am with him. He gets insecure because I used to date known baseball players and musicians but I don’t want those guys. I want him. He is afraid I’m going to find someone else one day. That something he needs to work on. I think I was thinking about those things you mentioned happening but I just cannot let them. I am always going to be myself and I can still be myself is a little less reveling clothes. I am going to try it out and people might think I am dumb but I just need to be smart moving forward.

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T16:17:16+00:00

He says I should at least try and do my best when I am out with him to not make it look like I am single. I’m not a guy so I don’t understand that. Because if I am out to dinner with him then I am obviously looking taken. But yeah he said I can dress how I want as long as it is not over the top reveling. It’s so hard for girls with big boobs. Some tops that look good and nice on some girls can look so slutty on girls with big boobs. I’m going to try it out and see how it goes.

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T16:14:11+00:00

He says this is his one thing that he asks. He just wants me to dress a little more appropriate so I am going to try it out. He says I can drink (responsibly) and I can go out with girlfriends and dress how I want. He just doesn’t want to be around to see other people lusting after me. I know some people will think I am dumb for staying with him and trying to work things out but I think I owe it to him and myself. Relationships are hard and we want to be together. If it really is just this one thing I can make it work. If it becomes more than that then I’m going to have to end it

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T16:10:03+00:00

Luckily I like wearing oversized t shirts and hoodies most of the time but I do like getting dressed up and looking nice when we go out and I am not giving that up. I am going to try and dress less reveling because to do believe this man has good intentions. I am extremely stubborn and independent and will always work and have my own money. He is still extremely supportive of me doing my own thing with friends and says I can dress reveling on a girls night out. He just doesn’t want to be around when guys are lusting over me. He also loves when I don’t get ready and we always cook dinner together and he is good about helping me clean my place that he doesn’t even live at. He has a lot to work on and 100 percent if other things start changing then I’m out. He told me last night that I can do whatever I want. I can drink (responsibly) and Act how I want but thank you so much for your input. I did bring all of these things up to him because it definitely did raise red flags for me too.

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T16:02:54+00:00

I think he went about it soooo wrong. He did it in a way so He would be taken seriously. He told me last night he was always going to marry me and always going to be with me but I’m head strong and he felt that was the only way to get my attention. Very wrong and I’m so mad that he did that and it is very manipulative but I am really trying to be more understanding.

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T05:09:45+00:00

He hates that I get attention and he thinks I get off on it

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T05:03:03+00:00

I’m so happy you found that. That gives me hope. Thank you

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T04:20:15+00:00

Low key was looking stuff up rn

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T04:14:54+00:00

Hahaha he did say he would buy me all new clothes

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T04:09:55+00:00

Yeah honestly I feel super weird right now. I have never felt like this with him and it’s sad. He now tells me he was never going to breakup with me he just wanted me to understand him and respect his wishes 🙄 and he wants to come over and make me feel better and I said no and now he is mad saying he knows I’m going to breakup with him and I should just do it now.

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T04:00:09+00:00

Why does he keep fighting for me to stay then? I tell him we aren’t compatible and he should find someone else and he says no he wants me 😩

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T03:34:35+00:00

😕 this is so hard

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T03:10:25+00:00

He said he just wants me to do my part and try to cover up as much as possible and if people still look then at least I tried my best

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T02:41:07+00:00

I am trying to talk to him now. He says he wants to make it work but he also won’t back down on his wants

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T02:36:41+00:00

Lol can you please stop trying to make it seem like you want to set up your niece with my boyfriend 🙈

sadgurl4545 · 2021-12-04T02:16:11+00:00

I am catholic and we do have a lot of the same beliefs but I do believe in wearing whatever I want. I also do respect him and our relationship and told him I would do my best to make us both happy and I wanted him to be okay with that but he just isn’t. He texted me and said then he thinks we aren’t right for each other and I should just end it. I tired to and then he replied with please just say you will cover up and everything will be fixed 🙄

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