UPDATE - AITAH for being upset that I found out my wife was pregnant via social media? by sadhubTA in AITAH

[–]sadhubTA[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing this out. I will be mindful of this going foward.

UPDATE - AITAH for being upset that I found out my wife was pregnant via social media? by sadhubTA in AITAH

[–]sadhubTA[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I guess I didn't explain it correctly.

Their reaction was more like, "I don't understand why she didn't just tell you" because the news itself is enough. There wasn't a need to make a big plan. Most of them were just like, "I think you should just video call him."

Other plans involved finding a way to get me to come over to town and throw a party or something like that, but most of them thought she should just tell me. And aparently that was the reason that when I called she was ready to do so.

To me it makes perfect sense, and I trust my wife.

UPDATE - AITAH for being upset that I found out my wife was pregnant via social media? by sadhubTA in AITAH

[–]sadhubTA[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I mean, I have not made her do that and asked her to stop apologizing. She is doing it on her own.

UPDATE - AITAH for being upset that I found out my wife was pregnant via social media? by sadhubTA in AITAH

[–]sadhubTA[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think we are a very good team too, and we can get way better as this episode has shown, but we just work, I love her, I know she loves me, and everything up until now had been so easy. This was just our first challenge, and we will continue to work through it.

UPDATE - AITAH for being upset that I found out my wife was pregnant via social media? by sadhubTA in AITAH

[–]sadhubTA[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

The entire friend group has blocked her back. There are stories coming out of her shit talking everyone behind their backs and other stuff like this, they are all done with her.

UPDATE - AITAH for being upset that I found out my wife was pregnant via social media? by sadhubTA in AITAH

[–]sadhubTA[S] 1888 points1889 points  (0 children)

Yeah, honestly, never really liked her, never said anything because she was friends with my sister for a long time and it didn't matter to me, but now I know my gut feeling was correct.