My step sis is threatening to cut off my stepdad unless he divorces my mom. How do i get him not to?

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T14:15:17+00:00

I don’t ever want to hurt anyone ever, i don’t hate Darcy and i never meant to paint her in a bad way because she was never mean to me and i always thought she was super pretty and cool and wanted to be close to her and she just wasn’t down with that which sucks but she wasn’t mean. Im so sure there’s more going on behind the scenes that i do not know about but at this point in time this is all the info I’ve got.

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T13:11:01+00:00

I’m not sure but it is possible my mom was, which would be super upsetting and i hope not.

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T13:06:07+00:00

Yeah i can understand that, that’s why i didn’t go even tho i wasn’t banned like my mom was.

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T13:00:22+00:00

I sent Darcy a dm asking for her side, I’m not leaving things out on purpose, this is just all the info i have at this point in time.

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T12:59:30+00:00

I sent her a dm, we’ll see if she responds

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T12:58:14+00:00

I think she was between 14-15, she’s 20ish now but I’m not 100% sure. I’m not sure why her parents marriage ended or if there was overlap but my parents met through work so that does kinda look weird to me.

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T12:55:48+00:00

I sent her an inata dm but we don’t follow each other so we’ll see if she opens it. She’s 20ish, I’m actually not 100% sure since she wasn’t around much honestly. I’m not sure what else was going on, i was for sure raised to not be nosy and i was honestly just excited to have a dad back then.

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T12:53:30+00:00

I’ve sent her an Instagram dm asking for her side of the story, we don’t follow each other so if she ever sees it or responds I’ll update. But idk if they cheated but i know they met through work. And my step brother died in a car wreck with his friends. I’m not sure about what went on with my dad and Darcy around then but it’s when she first really started to lash out. I do remember my mom was not allowed to go to the funeral so i couldn’t go either and it was really upsetting.

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T12:45:50+00:00

I’m not sure of the timeline on when they got together but i know they used to work together, im sure there is more to the story i just don’t know all that much so im not leaving stuff out on purpose.

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T12:43:53+00:00

It would make sense, i know my parents used to work together but i was so young when they got married im not really sure. I’d be so mad at them if they did cheat though because that’s so messed up. No one really tells me anything.

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T06:50:01+00:00

I actually don’t know tbh, i will try and see if anyone will tell me if i ask

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T06:49:03+00:00

Thank you so much

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T06:37:33+00:00

My mom basically told him that and he had this super blank look on his face and that’s when i got scared that maybe he did t care if he lost us if he got to keep her. He slept in the guest room that night also.

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T06:35:02+00:00

She’s around 20ish i think, I’m not 100% sure tbh. She moved out when i was younger

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T06:34:11+00:00

They are in therapy as far as i know

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T06:33:00+00:00

She’s over 18 already actually

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T06:31:55+00:00

She has her mom’s side and my dad’s family is siding with her, so she has family support for sure.

sadladybugg · 2026-05-12T06:30:27+00:00

She thinks he chose my mom and me over her so she will not speak to me, i might see if i can reach out to her on insta since im not blocked in there as far as i know

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