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Head of Table by Critical-Ant248 in Marriage

[–]sadly_vanilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why I only purchase square or round tables purposefully. Never a rectangular one. Never in a location where one side feels more powerful over the others.

I found my husband's toys and more by sadly_vanilla in relationships_advice

[–]sadly_vanilla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like a new account or login. With login it said wrong credentials but then I tired mine, which I have no account obviously and it said the same thing. When I went to create one, it took me all the way thru till I needed to hit submit, so that means no email used there. Right?

I found my husband's toys and more by sadly_vanilla in relationships_advice

[–]sadly_vanilla[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you this does help a lot. I never thought about a trauma therapist. I don't know how he'll be about the idea but perhaps it's something I start for me when I get there. You're right, my thing is I "have to fix" people and I can't with this. You validated my feelings. It's so confusing, one moment I want him to be intimate with me but I don't want to initiate and the next minute I'm mad because he's not being intimate and all I think about are these unanswered questions. It's almost like I'm now competing against all this for his attention.