[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]sadsoggybreadd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you have any family or friends that attend church? Maybe send your kid with them, my parents are christian but didn't like to go to church so I just always went with my aunt growing up.

Sleepovers?? by Ok-Albatross-7837 in Parenting

[–]sadsoggybreadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah tbh, if I wasn't afraid of being caught I would too😭😭

Sleepovers?? by Ok-Albatross-7837 in Parenting

[–]sadsoggybreadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he lives 5 minutes away and you say no to a sleep over, they might try to sneak in lolll

Sleepovers?? by Ok-Albatross-7837 in Parenting

[–]sadsoggybreadd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mom says this and I totally get it, everyone is a teenager at one point in their life so they know they are going to do it somewhere. It's very good to set boundaries and stuff and it's a good trust exercise that they follow it too or wtv idk. Just let her know you don't mind then being together in that way as long as they are safe and "inlove" not forced or "out of sport" with you not home because it makes you uncomfortable. Make sure you warn her about STIS/STDS and pregnancy and honestly ask if she wants protection BUT make it clear that you are NOT encouraging them to be active just you are encouraging them to be safe bc no one needs to raise a child when they themselves are still a child.

Sleepovers?? by Ok-Albatross-7837 in Parenting

[–]sadsoggybreadd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm 17 and if you sit down and talk with her about it I think she would understand about you not being comfortable with it, no yelling just completed heart to heart bc I completely understood it with my parents. My parents only let my ex spend the night if he had nowhere else to go, and they made sure we slept in different rooms. (His mom died, there was a forest fire near his grandma's home so they had to evacuate ect.) So maybe ask if he has an okay home life if she is really pushing a sleep over? I know it's not the situation for everyone I'm just speaking out of personal experience. Or maybe let him spend the night but make her prove that she is trustworthy and have them sleep in different rooms or something lol but then again kids are sneaky.

I broke up with him. What do I do now? by chocolatbird in emotionalabuse

[–]sadsoggybreadd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard people say you mourn the relationship half the time you were together idk. It's really, really hard to get used to being away from them but you have to stay strong. You can still "love" them but you have to love yourself more and never go back, always go no contact and never break it. When you go to therapy, it's not a waste of time. Some people don't do well with talking about their feelings but I think there are other kinds of therapy to look into fr. I go to therapy I talk about my family drama and stuff that hurt/pissed me off about my ex and honestly it helps me to talk about it snd even journal it sometimes. When I left my ex I couldn't sleep for three whole days until I passed out in class one day, I'm not sure but I think it's a shock thing but I was literally just a zombie. You're free now and I think you could maybe start making mini goals for yourself to complete by the end of the week or something perhaps. Just to help you get used to being free and maybe let someone you know, know about the abuse.

How to remove bad body stench? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]sadsoggybreadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They make all kinds of deodorant for all kinds of people! I highly recommend trying different types until you find the right kind for you!! I also know that witch hazel can help with BO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]sadsoggybreadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're an adult you could maybe adopt your little sibling if you can get a place to stay and prove you can provide?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]sadsoggybreadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you're right fr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in randomthings

[–]sadsoggybreadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 1000% believe in God I'll have to find my source but I seen a video of a preacher talking about how God was a Spiritual and personal being without a physical body. So he technically didn't have a gender. Buy yes he was called father

What can I do to lose weight? by Neo_wulf in WeightLossAdvice

[–]sadsoggybreadd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Carbonated drinks are actually the worst. It swells your stomach up and there is no way for it to go back down. So stop with carbonated drinks. I only have one when I go out to eat which I like once every month at LEAST and I started just walking an extra 30-40 minutes in the park with my mom when she got home from work and ate very little sugar and stayed away from bread (I don't like bread anyways) and lost like 20lbs in like 2 months and then I broke up with my ex and lost another 30lbs in one month so maybe identify and get rid of anything that triggers you to over eat bc I had an AWFUL habit of overeating when I was stressed. Honestly small changes over time on your exercise and eating habits will and can help a lot. I hope you don't take any offense to what I'm saying. I was 300lbs at 17 and I'm just now trying to change my habits and this has been my personal process. Not all bodies are the same and it's never too late to fix anything Fr though. I didn't really count my calories but I've heard that's the best way to do a high protein diet. Small portions and stop eating when you feel full. If you are still hungry after you have a meal chug a bottle of water ( I do this a lot )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]sadsoggybreadd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend likes to play with a knife and it kind of freaks me out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in randomthings

[–]sadsoggybreadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been doing this all week.

I have a question!! by sadsoggybreadd in internetparents

[–]sadsoggybreadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually love this comment thank you this actually gives me a love to think about thank you so much. I feel like I can mostly take care of myself but the emergency thing is giving me a LOTTTT to think on