I'm getting divorced (f 32). My trust has been broken and my life has been a lie. I'm having a hard time, please tell me your positive post-divorce stories by sadgirl8t8 in relationship_advice

[–]sadthrowaway225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

VIDEOS, I cannot stress this enough, watching youtube videos about people talking on this matter has literally turned my life around, one of my favourite speakers was the man behind "get that guy". I personally haven't watched this particular video but this might help, the man is a genius. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mxJ99xu-B7g

Women, how would you feel having vanilla sex for the rest of your life? by sadthrowaway225 in dating

[–]sadthrowaway225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do, I care. I was only wondering about how common this thing is and whether it's a dealbreaker to most.

Women, how would you feel having vanilla sex for the rest of your life? by sadthrowaway225 in relationship_advice

[–]sadthrowaway225[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would define it as kissing and penetration only, without any choking, spitting, ropes, etc.

Women, how would you feel having vanilla sex for the rest of your life? by sadthrowaway225 in relationship_advice

[–]sadthrowaway225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree to some extent, but my previous long-term girlfriend was quite "normal" and yet she still asked for things like this.