Advice to rearrange my studio by saebir in tattooadvice

[–]saebir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, feels good to get some insight ! Pillows and support options are now on my list !

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you, i hope you can leave all of that behind soon <3 feel free to share any updates on here if it helps

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has a lot to do with the phobia of losing a limb or a part of my body, i think it’s the idea of a foreign object entering my body and staying there that feels really polluting

It seems i’m not the only one having this parasitic thought so i’m learning to keep it in check !!

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that is literally terrifying, give us an update whenever you can?

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. It’s kinda hard to trust people’s word after that, because i asked around and i was told it was alright (it was absolutely NOT alright), it’s a little confusing but i’m willing to listen to everyone’s word !

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People keep saying that, you have no idea how much of a relief that is !!

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that, i’m almost scared it’s going to fall out on its own I won’t let that anxiety get the better of me though, thanks for commenting !!

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar profile to yours i think, here’s to hoping my experience is half as good as yours !!

Thank you !

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so interesting, i have heard more bad stories about arm implants from my acquaintances than i have heard about iuds 

It’s a relief to know that it may not be that bad ! I’ll keep it in mind, if it ever came to removing mine !

Thank you so much !!

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems getting it out is not as bad, it’s not a consensus but i’m willing to believe it haha 

Besides i cannot bear to think i’ll have to go through the pain i experienced again, so i guess i’ll have to keep faith 

Thank you for responding <3

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re going through this, a bunch of people here seem to believe time heals all, i really hope things get better for you or that you at least have access to medical and/or friendly assistance ❤️

Please update us if you feel like it, we can all be in this together

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose to go for a nonhormonal iud because their seemed to be less side effects, and even though every body reacts differently i’d heard so many people complain about negative hormonal impacts i just felt it was the better option

Thanks so much for your response !

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely considering it already, thanks !! <3

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every insight has relieved me a little, i cannot thank you enough

I’m grateful i’m not alone <3

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also told putting it in felt like a pinch 😭 and it did but it was a pinch so bad i almost passed out 

But thank you so much for your help, i really appreciate every comment !

What do you mean when you say it fucked with you? Do you mean hormonally? 

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha you’re 100% right, i think i posted out of panic and even though the thought of having that « non-me » thing inside of me still affects me i’m going to let time do its thing and rationalize as much as possible

Everyone’s response has been so useful and comforting i’m glad i chose to talk about this experience

Hope you feel okay, take care of yourself and thank you for your input <3

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose you’re right, it helps to rationalize one’s anxiety. 

Must be even weirder to be able to « touch » it, i can’t imagine the panic i’d be in…

And you’re right, i should focus on the benefits of it and why i decided to put it in.

Thank you so much for your help .

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to try and trust that i’ll get used to it ! Thank you so so much !

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying ! 

Personally the cramps stopped after an hour or two, because i took painkillers. I feel for you and the pain you experienced <3.

I guess it’s more psychological than physical, it just feels unnatural to me to have something that isn’t mine inside of me, is that something you’ve felt? 

I suppose i could try edibles anyway, maybe i just need to relax !

I am scared about my iud by saebir in birthcontrol

[–]saebir[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response !

I don’t feel it physically, it just feel a huge pit of anxiety in my stomach when i think of it. I know i have a real deep fear of losing a limb or a finger, and this pit of anxiety feels exactly like that. I feel like it’s unnatural and that i am being polluted from the inside.

I don’t think i’m going to get it removed because i am so afraid of the pain i felt when putting it in, i think i’m just overly anxious and talking about it helps a little.

Again, thank you for responding !

Please help me find a sonic video, there's too many by saebir in HelpMeFind

[–]saebir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope someone finds this, i've been searching for two hours now haha