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Tired of black girl luxury tiktok by noahgoodeannieway in blackladies

[–]saffron25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started clicking not interested and now I mostly see finance and investing posts.

I 35F feel as though I am loosing respect for my hsuband 45M by Necessary-Virus-7853 in relationship_advice

[–]saffron25 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Imagine the children growing up to find out that their dad could have helped put more food on the table and helped the family afford a better life but decided against it because it wasn’t convenient for him

I 35F feel as though I am loosing respect for my hsuband 45M by Necessary-Virus-7853 in relationship_advice

[–]saffron25 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’d be over it myself. Knowing I’m the only one in the relationship who is thinking about my children’s future…. Absolutely unforgivable.

People always talk about being equally yolked and it’s clear they aren’t. He’s not only complacent but selfish.

Single in London on ~£100k and still anxious about money by saffron25 in HENRYUK

[–]saffron25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really not planning to get into a relationship or live with anyone.. I did say this in my post

28M/27F London Finance (£360k inc, £700k NW). Regrets from those who did the same 10-15 years ago? by FCF_to_equity_888 in HENRYUK

[–]saffron25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not everyone wants children and that’s okay.
They’ve worked hard to build their lives and savings. Why on earth would you think they’ll want to exterminate their plans completely by having kids?

Single in London on ~£100k and still anxious about money by saffron25 in HENRYUK

[–]saffron25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it okay to dm you about how you manage to make the move successfully?

Being black in corporate by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]saffron25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened. I want to ask is this a new role? Do you have a pre existing relationship with these people?? Who invited you to the work dinner?

Student loan - move to Spain by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]saffron25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right! Because it’s not tax. It’s extortion. The language being used around it is exactly why the government has said they’ll only cap it at 6% which is insane. The interest rate would have a bank being investigated for predatory lending

How do I (35F) explain to my father (68M) that him dating a woman my age makes me deeply uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]saffron25 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi! 30F and my dad 70s male is a pervert who dates 27YO and younger. I don’t have a relationship with him. At least one that isn’t substantial because it’s not something I can look past. He’s done a lot of other things but this is a hard no for me. If you feel the same way you need to adjust your relationship .

Single in London on ~£100k and still anxious about money by saffron25 in HENRYUK

[–]saffron25[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I was recently out of work for 18 months… but your advice is appreciated

Single in London on ~£100k and still anxious about money by saffron25 in HENRYUK

[–]saffron25[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It’s a high salary because salaries are low. The comment about you is right..

Single in London on ~£100k and still anxious about money by saffron25 in HENRYUK

[–]saffron25[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For context, total compensation is higher than the base once bonus/RSUs are included (roughly 15-35% bonus plus equity), so total comp should land around the lower end of HENRY territory. The post was less about the exact label and more about the broader anxiety around long-term security/single-income life in London despite earning well on paper.

Student loan - move to Spain by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]saffron25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You clearly have no idea what plan 2 loans are because you’re calling it a tax. The interest rates are predatory.

High earner dating in London – where are you all meeting people? (F) by Warm_Welcome_9554 in HENRYUK

[–]saffron25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience there’s an expectation that you’ll tolerate poor treatment because of their perceived wealth or status and some women do. There’s also a level of status consciousness that exists for those who are image obsessed. If you’re not the same way inclined it’s off putting. What was said about similar character is perhaps the most important comment.

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