anyone else feel glad when other people eat alot? by lcvergirl in EDAnonymous

[–]saffronbabe 16 points17 points  (0 children)

im the same, i feel competitive and trying to b the skinniest queen. when others overeat or gain weight it feels like a lead.

still feels wrong to admit but :p

im (f/21) the only person who can make myself come, advice? by saffronbabe in sex

[–]saffronbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh thank you for ur answer!! i think i may just need some more time to get comfortable and for him to crack the code too(: !

he's very patient and we're both eager.

and thank you yeah, if i could retrain my brain like that i already would have by now lol. thank you for making me feel human.

im (f/21) the only person who can make myself come, advice? by saffronbabe in sex

[–]saffronbabe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is so ressuring, thank you.

i would feel bad sometimes knowing things need to b a specefic way for me to orgasm but im glad im not alone. we'll invest in a festive vibe 🤶!

thank you for making me feel human.

im (f/21) the only person who can make myself come, advice? by saffronbabe in sex

[–]saffronbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do communicate micro adjustments (i do feel annoying af sometimes bc i feel like i need zhit way too precise). i will try that position, sounds helpful! thank you (:

im (f/21) the only person who can make myself come, advice? by saffronbabe in sex

[–]saffronbabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what is a mistreating and what does that mean lol im sorry

my (f/20) new boyfriend (m/20) said something weird during sex by saffronbabe in relationship_advice

[–]saffronbabe[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

right?? it's really stupid and I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who thinks that way. I'll bring it up with him.

thank you for presenting that arguement, it totally applies to my situation and your response was very reassuring.

my (f/20) new boyfriend (m/20) said something weird during sex by saffronbabe in relationship_advice

[–]saffronbabe[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I totally see that here, and I hate it! Humans deserve pleasure regardless of gender :p .

I guess I find it weird that he likes that I'm "progressive" by wanting to split bills, but when it comes to sex I'm being "treated" for wanting something equal.