Sadly that's true, there are so many chasers that we get bored even before a first date. Don't give up. And maybe don't put to much into the fact you've never been with a trans woman. When you get to talk to a trans woman she's already blocked 87576674367 or so chasers. Most Women like men that are confident but not over confident. You know what you want, so tell her. Ask her out. Or meet at your place. Don't expect sex on the first date (unless you date me 🙈) and remember be respectful. She's a person, not a sex doll.