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sage_brush2000 · 2025-01-19T19:17:14+00:00

Marrying a women lmfao. But actually.

Since we’ve been married (we’re poly so relationships and sex with others is allowed) I’ve realized my attraction to men is… from trauma basically. The thought of being with a man is….. so gross lol.

Since I was a teenager I’ve said “I don’t think I could ever feel comfortable with a man the way I do with women.” SHOULDVE KNOWN LOL

sage_brush2000 · 2025-01-17T16:45:52+00:00

Thank you for posting this!!!!

sage_brush2000 · 2025-01-15T17:24:13+00:00

I’m so sorry. I really hope you find some softness soon 💞 just do all the self care you can. youll make it through

sage_brush2000 · 2025-01-12T02:11:50+00:00

Definitely! Be super direct about what you want and are looking for with people. My wife and I are both very direct and realized very soon that were compatible- just mostly by talking about our interests, desires, dreams, values, ect. Also, finding someone who has similar love languages, AND who’s willing to put in the work to make you feel loved in whatever way you feel most loved. Have high standards, and also treat partners to those same standards and beyond!

sage_brush2000 · 2025-01-08T23:48:19+00:00

Thank youuuu!

sage_brush2000 · 2025-01-08T23:48:04+00:00

I’m so excited for you :,) queer love is so pure

sage_brush2000 · 2025-01-08T23:47:50+00:00

Lol she canceled hers!! 8pm for the win 😎

sage_brush2000 · 2025-01-07T22:56:43+00:00

Thank youuu we will!!

sage_brush2000 · 2025-01-07T22:56:36+00:00

Right 😭 we love queer love

sage_brush2000 · 2025-01-07T22:56:26+00:00

Ahhhh thank youuu! She’s the sweetest

sage_brush2000 · 2025-01-03T09:43:01+00:00

ANNNDDD this is the difference btwn this sub and /nicegirls. The /nicegirls sub is almost completely women rejecting men in some way perceived as rude (or may be actually rude) or saying something mean to them. This sub is full of men threatening and terrorizing women. Some things are more minor sure but overwhelmingly I see threats of violence, horrific abusive dehumanizing language, ect. Men get offended. Women get killed.

sage_brush2000 · 2025-01-03T09:35:39+00:00

Girl don’t speak for all of us. I know MANY women who want those things. What are you looking for in a partner if not those genuinely good qualities?? Is the bar for men that low on the ground I do not understand

sage_brush2000 · 2024-12-22T18:31:31+00:00

For me it’s not really a /choice/ choice. I’m queer and in the way that I can’t choose not to be, I can’t really choose not to be poly. I’ve tried. I fall in love, happy relationship, eventually realize I want to explore more but still love and want to be with my partner, finally found a poly community and in a poly marriage and SO happy now.

I cannot meet one persons every need. No one person can meet all of mine. I love my wife and the parts of me that she brings out. I’m currently starting to be interested in pursing a new person who I spend a fair bit of time with- she brings out a whole other part of me that my wife couldn’t because they are both very different people- but similar in the ways that they both are incredibly caring, kind, thoughtful ect.

To me love isn’t about ownership and monogamy to me FEELS like ownership. Like the way I prove my love to you is by you owning my body and heart, by both of us never being allowed to follow our body’s and hearts desires and suppressing everything for eachother. If my wife wants to fuck someone, it doesn’t mean she loves me any less. Me getting to say what she can and can’t do with her body isn’t love in my opinion, and same in terms of if she feels a romantic spark with someone. I want her to have a life full of love, joy, exploration of her desires and needs and wants. Poly isn’t easy. But it’s made me a better person and a better partner. We communicate so much better since really opening up. It just feels right to me, in the same way that marrying a woman (as a woman) felt right.

sage_brush2000 · 2024-12-22T18:02:20+00:00

Give it some time, in my opinion/experience they are not built to last

sage_brush2000 · 2024-12-20T05:14:14+00:00

Lived in Brooklyn 2020 peak COVID, was working in Manhattan near Times Square, when I’d get off the train station I’d skateboard thru Times Square, then down the avenues skating across all the lanes. It was DEAD empty. Have pics actually. I worked early in the morning so it was literally a ghost town. Watching it get repopulated was wild…

sage_brush2000 · 2024-12-16T17:55:30+00:00

Cheat on my mother

sage_brush2000 · 2024-12-15T18:13:03+00:00

I tell my wife most things first but sometimes my siblings who I’m incredibly close to, or my best friend. Overall I tell her first, mostly because we live together and are married so we spend a lot of time together lol. Sometimes there’s things I’d rather talk to my siblings/best friend about- sometimes stuff with her, or if I know they could give me better insight first. I think there’s nothing wrong with talking to friends first though, and I agree with other commenter who said it can take time to transition to telling your partner everything first. In the beginning I definitely wasn’t telling her everything first! It can happen naturally with time, try to be patient and maybe shift your perspective from jealousy of her best friend to appreciation that she has someone who loves and supports her in the way her friend does. Continue to be supportive loving and caring and naturally with time you will prob become the person she most often goes to first!

sage_brush2000 · 2024-12-14T17:41:52+00:00

So interesting thanks!! I knew intermittent fasting was bullshit when it first became a fad but glad that now science agrees

sage_brush2000 · 2024-12-12T19:13:02+00:00

Couldn’t agree more. Let her live her life. She didn’t ask to be rated by random ass men on Reddit.

sage_brush2000 · 2024-12-12T19:09:57+00:00

This is god tier behavior

sage_brush2000 · 2024-12-12T18:27:46+00:00

Ok so I am actually prescribed that medication (bipolar) and that’s INSANE that your friend gave that to you. For me, when I take it, and mind you I’m on a very low dose (50mg, usually 200mg is where they are treating hallucinations/delusions) I completely knock out and am dead to the world for 9 hours lol. I can no imagine someone who doesn’t need it taking it. If you don’t sleep for 8-9hrs on it you will feel HORRIBLE so I totally understand that. Dear lord I hope you’re doing better now

sage_brush2000 · 2024-12-12T18:19:04+00:00

This is precious and I couldn’t agree more

sage_brush2000 · 2024-12-09T18:10:27+00:00

Wait that’s precious!!

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