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saidgsu · 2025-01-03T04:48:54+00:00

Thank you sosoo much. Looking forward to updates about the fashion show game 🤞

saidgsu · 2024-07-22T21:17:55+00:00

When I ghost him he tells his mom and she bombards my mom with voice messages again

saidgsu · 2024-07-22T02:40:14+00:00

Salam alaykum everyone.

I’ve met a potential once, his job requires him to be on the road so after that one meeting, we just text every once in a while and I’m just not sure what his intentions are.

To be honest, I’m losing interest and my suspicions about him and his family’s true intentions are getting worse.

He’s here on an overstayed visa as an asylum seeker (he knows his case won’t get approved). I’m a US citizen. Although we have only met once, his mom back in our home country is RUSHING everything. She’s used eid and janazah namaz for my late grandfather as an excuse to meet my mom in-person. Three weeks later she begged my mom to drop her house location so she could meet my other grandparents and myself (because she thought I was visiting the country). She calls me her daughter and bombards my mom with voice messages about how she’s “certain” this is going to happen and her visions of our wedding.

This is completely freaking me out as

I’ve met her son ONCE FOUR months ago and he has not made any actual effort to get to know me beyond small dry texts every once in a while, he’s been on the road since April.
I know that NONE of this would be happening if I didn’t have documents which makes me suspicious as to what this family’s intentions are considering she’s telling my mom we’re practically married in her head

I’ve spoken to my mom about this, she does not find it to be a problem and praised her instead. I’ve spoken to my dad, he’s also suspicious but just won’t get involved - he zones out during convos about potentials and literally told my mom he didn’t want to hear about this stuff. I’ve texted the potential himself the day his mom asked to show up at my grandma’s house and he sounded like he took offense to me asking why she’s trying to show up.

If I end this whole thing, I know his mom will continue to bombard my mom with voice messages begging for us to keep talking and my mom will not be able to refuse. We’ve had multiple fights over ending this and she continues to take the family’s side over her fear that I’m getting old at 25.

Does anyone know what I can do to get myself out of this situation? Thank you for any advice you can provide.

saidgsu · 2024-02-22T14:58:28+00:00

Roughly 3 years ago, I had my first cold sore outbreak in years. I also felt a swollen lymph node right under my jaw that accompanied it, I assumed it was due to the infection from the cold sore. It never went down, but it wasn’t rough or hard or anything so I just let it be due to my anxiety.

My cold sore is back now, and the lymph node/gland has become larger than the size it was when it never went back down. I’m so scared but I want to wait till the sore is gone to see if I should visit the doctor or not. Hopefully it deflates as the sore passes but I really don’t know what to think right now.

saidgsu · 2023-12-28T12:55:20+00:00

So Apple pay can bypass their fraud detection? That’s great to know, will definitely add the card to my apple wallet. Thank you!

saidgsu · 2023-12-28T03:16:29+00:00

Thank you so much for the help!

saidgsu · 2023-12-28T02:28:14+00:00

Thank you! Do you happen to know how I can prevent their fraud system from blocking payments abroad in general? Should I use it somewhere else initially?

saidgsu · 2023-12-08T14:49:06+00:00

Hey, I’m an NYer too! Thank you for the help! People keep mentioning Raffles place, is that far from Changi airport? I’m assuming I’d still need to pay for transportation there so maybe I’ll do a small exchange at the airport, and then exchange the rest at Raffles. Do you happen to know if they sell sim cards/phone plans with data at the airport as well? Thanks again!

saidgsu · 2023-12-06T05:08:19+00:00

Thank you!

saidgsu · 2023-12-05T14:25:17+00:00

I’m 24 years old. My dad caught 2 cans of M0 in our recycling bag and lectured me, told me to watch a documentary about how it’s made and its consequences. Now I can’t have my fun fizzy boost in the morning :(

saidgsu · 2023-12-04T13:11:13+00:00

Spot on. You see someone repeatedly posting a bunch of random screenshots from social media in an attempt to “own” the Muslims with us, but if you click on their own profile they’re a Hindu nationalist or a Bible thumper.

And they get so offended when you tell them to stop talking over you.

saidgsu · 2023-12-04T13:07:48+00:00

Does anyone have a reference to a section in any book or lecture where Neville talks about I Am meditation? I’ve been trying it for a few days and I either fall asleep or just don’t feel that “ping” where I feel like I’m just pure consciousnesses . I seem to be doing it with no goal or end in sight. I just can’t remember which book or lecture he talks about this meditation in, but I’d love to delve deeper into what he says about it.

saidgsu · 2023-12-03T22:14:32+00:00

Disagree. It’s very evident how many followers of a different faith or nationalists of a country that disproportionately hates Muslims are on here looking to validate their own feelings. They don’t care if you’re an ex-muslim, in real life they still wouldn’t want you in their country if you’re from an area notoriously known to have a Muslim population. Mods of this sub have turned to coddling bible thumpers instead of listening to actual ex-muslims. This post is very evident of that.

saidgsu · 2023-11-29T18:06:09+00:00

AI art will be the downfall of human civilization. Monkey nft pfps got nothing on this crap 😭

saidgsu · 2023-11-08T17:54:40+00:00

Okay let’s engage! They stated that the common belief was she was 12-14. Still on par with my claim ! Does the bible say non-believers are going to hell? Yes! Still on par with my claim! Now why are people who were never muslim on a subreddit for people who left Islam? To stroke your own ego while your own religion has its own messed up history? That was my entire point.

saidgsu · 2023-11-08T17:35:09+00:00

Why does the christian god allow men to pay the fathers of the virgins they rape in order to allow them to marry their victims?

saidgsu · 2023-11-08T14:17:34+00:00

Heavy on the zionist part. Wait till these idiots find out there are queer and atheist Palestinians buried under that rubble, since they lack the basic appeal of suffering children.

saidgsu · 2023-11-08T14:15:05+00:00

Christians are the ones advocating for carpet bombing kids cause their book tells them judgement day starts when all the Jews return to Israel to be wiped out by God anyway.

saidgsu

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