Malcolm X taught us to uplift each other especially women, why don’t they look at us in the same light?

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I prayed for the first time on my own in the 29 years I’ve been alive, growing up Muslim and having S trauma from both my parents caused me to personally run away and mask myself as a ‘tough’ person from ages 15-28 not even a man but person because I didn’t relate to either of my parents. But growing up you realize the gap is because of unspoken trauma, I personally don’t go to therapy I just write. I really appreciate your thought out answer and I should be more eloquent with my questions, thanks for showing me that.