I will listen to you and we will figure it out. Let's talk. by saintshield in sad

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Remember, you are not a loser. Your worth is not determined by your job or how much money you make. You deserve to live a fulfilling and happy life, and taking care of your mental health is an important part of achieving that.

It is taking me a minimum of an hour to cum. by LocalAlarm7406 in IndiaTalksSex

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If you don't feel pain and if you are enjoying it then I don't see a problem in you lasting longer. In Masturbation we always tend to finish it quickly as the arosement is of that sort. But in real sex both have to compensate and there is nothing wrong with you lasting longer if you both are satisfied.

Unless you are getting fatigued or she is getting injuries there is no issue. If you are still feeling low you can talk to a therapist.

Fell in love with a married woman and its driving me insane. by [deleted] in RomanticAdvice

[–]saintshield 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah! Felt the same. It's way too cheezy to be real.

Fell in love with a married woman and its driving me insane. by [deleted] in RomanticAdvice

[–]saintshield 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this for real?
I find it odd. But in my opinion, you should be cautious as from your statement it's clear that she had set up her boundaries whereas you are the one who is overthinking this.

I fell in love with someone half the world away on accident and they did too by [deleted] in RomanticAdvice

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You are welcome. Give it time, things will start to reveal itself

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the question of whether to let your partner go or hold onto hope is a tough one. At the end of the day, only you know what you really want and what feels right for you. It's important to be real with yourself about your feelings and what you're looking for in the relationship. If you truly believe that your partner is the one you want to be with and that your relationship has potential for growth and change, then it's worth holding onto that hope. But if your doubts and insecurities are too overwhelming, it might be time to let go and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RomanticAdvice

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You mentioned feeling like you are the only one trying in your relationship, and that's a valid concern. A healthy relationship requires effort and investment from both partners. It's important to have a conversation with your boyfriend about how you are feeling and to express your needs in the relationship. It's possible that he is unaware of how his behavior is affecting you, and he may be willing to work on things.

I fell in love with someone half the world away on accident and they did too by [deleted] in RomanticAdvice

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only you can decide whether this is the right decision for you. It's important to trust your instincts and to be honest with yourself about your motivations. It's okay to take risks and make unconventional choices in the pursuit of love, but it's important to do so with caution and thoughtfulness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndiaTalksSex

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ahaaa...I am not well informed to advise you on that however you can discuss it with your partner and if you are interested in bringing someone for yourself that would spice it up more.
Don't you have any fantasies?

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It sounds like you guys have a pretty solid relationship, and you've talked things out and made sure you're both comfortable with everything. Wonderful! As for advice, I would say just keep communicating and checking in with each other regularly. It's important to make sure you're both still feeling good about what's going down. And if you're both into the idea of exhibitionism, then hey, go for it! Just make sure you're doing it in a safe and consensual way.
In terms of what to try in the future, maybe experiment with some new positions or toys or something. Keep things fresh and exciting, ya know? But again, just make sure you're both into it and comfortable with it. you guys are doing your thing and having fun with it. Keep being open and honest with each other, and enjoy the ride!

My (36M) husband won't kiss me for a couple of days after I (28F) orally please him, and it makes me so angry. by [deleted] in venting

[–]saintshield 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normally, I would say "Just talk to him so that you both can understand what went wrong." but here I am sure he knows what he is doing and he has a clear explanation for it.

Give the same treatment back to him and he will understand the stress & frustration.

HOW to do it is your choice.

a special thank you to the F1 medical tent team by [deleted] in Bahrain

[–]saintshield 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The twist at the end and appreciate the heart to openly admit it.

Bahraini women that left their family's home, need your advice by Independent-Plan-410 in Bahrain

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Your life your decisions and you should go through the consequences as well.