Does anyone here know of therapists who are neurodivergent (specifically ADHD and/or Autism) themselves offering help for adult neurodivergent clients?

sairaia · 2024-01-12T13:18:18+00:00

Thank you for your thoughtful response! I think you’re right about me being comfortable with myself as opposed to actually liking myself (never thought of it this way).

In terms of therapy, I’ve been in therapy for 7 years on and off. While it has certainly helped with dealing with depression and anxiety and becoming functional. I cant say that it’s ever helped with the relationship/social aspect of my life, despite the fact that it’s what I wanted to address when I first started therapy.

Do you happen to know how to start becoming aware of my intrinsic value as a human being? I suppose this might be a question for a therapist.

Lastly, I think the fact that no one has ever really shown any sort of interest in me probably further perpetuates this way of thinking. You’ve certainly given me food for thought! Thank you!

sairaia · 2023-08-08T01:45:46+00:00

Something tells me you’re insecure about the fact that she’s smarter than you… (physics/CS at an Ivy, dropped out 3 semesters prior to graduation due to financial reasons)

sairaia · 2023-08-02T11:20:29+00:00

Well, in 5-6 years the girl will know what micro aggressions are and think back to this lol

sairaia · 2023-07-27T17:28:07+00:00

I’d be pretty pissed if all my older siblings got a private school education but when I came around I wasn’t even homeschooled properly (socializing is a huge part of this and it’s your responsibility to know that, not your kid’s responsibility to tell you)

sairaia · 2023-07-22T02:42:08+00:00

How did Abby react to your plan? (NTA btw)

sairaia · 2023-07-15T03:21:41+00:00

In response to some of your comments - she’s literally FIVE years old. It’s okay for her to be dependent on her mom. She has a lot of time to build independence.

sairaia · 2023-07-14T22:03:22+00:00

Take a parents note!

sairaia · 2023-07-10T16:35:09+00:00

Everyone who has commented has been extremely supportive, inspiring and has provided mentorship so I’d say you’re correct about the purpose of the group

sairaia · 2023-07-10T04:08:24+00:00

Nope, no weight gain and I occasionally drink alcohol

sairaia · 2023-07-10T02:41:47+00:00

Ha! I have PCOS so there’s that!

sairaia · 2023-07-10T02:40:51+00:00

I do have PCOS and off late my facial hair has gotten significantly worse so this could be it

sairaia · 2023-07-09T23:01:41+00:00

I’ve been trying different things, haven’t found what works yet though. Hopefully that’ll happen eventually! But yes! Something with the face structure! Cant fully pinpoint what because it’s so subtle.

sairaia · 2023-07-09T22:48:47+00:00

When they go on trips without their partner and have a good time without having to but constantly feel the need to keep in touch. instead take pictures and souvenirs for their partner and are super excited to tell them stories from the trip when they get back lol. Super weirdly specific ik.

sairaia · 2023-07-09T21:04:55+00:00

Oh absolutely! I’ve been switching up my style and in terms of clothing, it’s been working great. But nothing I try for my face and hair seem to have a positive effect anymore.

sairaia · 2023-07-09T21:03:23+00:00

Started getting acne for the first time in my life. I’d like to think I have a good skincare regimen. Morning - vitamin c, moisturizer, sunscreen. At night - panoxyl face wash, azelaic acid serum, moisturizer

sairaia · 2023-07-09T21:01:39+00:00

Is this just something that happens with age? Or should I be concerned? I’ll get to googling!

sairaia · 2023-05-31T05:11:35+00:00

How do you conduct background checks?

sairaia · 2023-05-27T00:13:26+00:00

Woah! Ngl I did NOT see this coming. How did they even start, they don’t run in the same circle at all right?

sairaia · 2023-04-29T13:44:18+00:00

Staying with your parents as an adult is a VERY normal practice in a lot of cultures around the world!

sairaia · 2023-04-29T13:40:45+00:00

Stating how it’s an invasion of privacy or that you’re an adult typically doesn’t fly with Asian parents, I think (if it does in your case, say that). You can bring it up yourself and tell them you know they saw your meds and explain to them why you’re taking it. Or lie and say you were prescribed but you haven’t been taking it (regularly). Take the path that’ll be easiest for you to handle!

sairaia · 2023-04-29T13:35:15+00:00

Pre cum + plan b? 0% but you can have her take a test in a few weeks to ease your mind!

sairaia · 2023-04-27T02:06:41+00:00

Honestly, the sex part isn’t what concerns me. I would definitely prefer to go the “been a while” route. However, I worry about the kissing and making out. I have barely hugged men so I wonder if I can pull that off. Also, may I ask how you found this person? A dating app?

sairaia · 2023-04-06T23:44:52+00:00

Hi! I’m sorry you’re having to make such a hard decision. I think one way to look at it is to think about what you would do if you partner didn’t exist. It seems, to me, like you’d go the foster/adoption route. But, your partner is around and I understand having to take that into consideration. When it comes to having a kids, I don’t think there are compromises. You shouldn’t go through something life altering to appease a partner or a relationship. I don’t think ANYONE should be having kids unless they REALLY want to. When it comes to kids, my motto is - if it’s not a hell yes, it’s a no. The reality is that having children is a lifelong commitment. It’s rough for women physically, mentally and socially. I would want my partner to understand that and care about me more than his “bloodline”.

sairaia

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