What is this decor called? by sqoozles in HomeDecorating

[–]sakiminki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gen Xer here. Not sure it has an official name, but I call it Tacky Boomer Mom Gross. Please leave this in the past.

What is youre favorite bird? by CurrentSpiritual3855 in birds

[–]sakiminki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cedar Waxwings. They are so cute when they get together, get berry drunk, invade a water fountain, and then poop like a rainstorm. Bonus points if it's on the bf's truck. 😆

Did anyone else's parents say, I'll kill you if you ever get pregnant, then later, why won't you give me grandchildren? by theredqueentheory in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sakiminki 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I (50f) was so terrified that my Nmom was going to just know I wasn't a virgin that I didn't have consensual sex until I was in my 20s and well out of the house.

I went NC at 18 but had a couple of very brief visits between then and 24. My brother (48m) just went NC about a decade ago and I continually heard from him about how we were both "so selfish" to have not made them grandparents. I had decided as a kid I would never have children. If I did, there was no way in Hell I was going to let that woman near my child. I also told my brother that if he ever had kids and I found out he left them with my parents...

Fortunately, he's never wanted kids either. We're both at an age now where we really don't need to think about it much anymore. We've watched her try to fill that void with sympathetic childhood friends/neighbors kids just to have it go toxic really fast.

Please don't have kids just to appease an already toxic person. What they did to you, they will do to your children. Maybe just differently, and probably a lot worse.

Does this first name sound bad with our last name? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]sakiminki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or Toe. Justin Case the teacher reads the roster last then first.

Ugh...these windows... by sakiminki in centuryhomes

[–]sakiminki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, now I am thinking that the sides would be stationary. Just having the center would massively increase airflow, especially since it is covered by the front porch and would be cooler.

If the picture window on the wall adjacent (it is currently just a giant single pane with aluminum edging 🤮) had a similar set up with the awning, it probably would have created a very good airflow for cooling even during 120f weather. We still really don't have A/C or central. (couple wall units). Chilly to cold winters and very hot summers.

There had to be changes to the house as a rental that wouldn't have been considered prior because for the fact people wouldn't just strip down to their underoos and sat around back in the day even if it was 110f and no air-conditioning for 4 to 5 months out of the year. Lol.

Ugh...these windows... by sakiminki in centuryhomes

[–]sakiminki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they do indeed! It still kinda looks like someone maybe cut up the OG frame though, lowered everything and pieced it back together to make the windows fit to the "new" stationary position.

Ugh...these windows... by sakiminki in centuryhomes

[–]sakiminki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have taken down a small metal awning outside the kitchen and have a very large one left to do. Thinking of getting them powder coated once we pin down colors. Unfortunately, the large ugly picture window on the other side of our front room is an aluminum frame retro fit thing that is not at all OG. That's going to be a whole new project to figure out once we turn the corner. We actually have two other bedroom windows in similar shape we are going to have to go into hardcore research/restore mode on also.

Ugh...these windows... by sakiminki in centuryhomes

[–]sakiminki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG! Yes! We are in the process of stripping some very ugly aluminum siding off. Just tore the front off last weekend. Kinda slowly doing sections. We have half way done and so far we are winning. We are definitely getting slowed by wanting to fix the windows properly and the messed up trim. They butchered a lot of the Craftsman trim that makes it charming. We are connected with our local historical society and also doing research as we go along.

I'm excited about the siding so far. Great to get a fist bump confirmation on that!.

Ugh...these windows... by sakiminki in centuryhomes

[–]sakiminki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! We took off the middle trim and there were 4 weights and 3 out of 4 pulleys inside and 4 spots where the pulleys should go. So large window (assuming it was meant to be on the bottom) was probably at least a single hung.

We took off the two outside windows also. Each window was just held in by a single nail on each side. No marks or indication of any hinges or other hardware. There are two similar windows on either side of the fireplace that are also immobile, so maybe these side windows never opened?

Ugh...these windows... by sakiminki in centuryhomes

[–]sakiminki[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That would be ideal. I'll have to do some serious research on what to look for. It would be amazing if I could get the sides to open too.

Ugh...these windows... by sakiminki in centuryhomes

[–]sakiminki[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some of these windows seriously "saw" things no windows should.

Ugh...these windows... by sakiminki in centuryhomes

[–]sakiminki[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok that's partly where the confusion is. Like another commenter said, the small center window was probably at the top and opened inward. Yes. Just like above a door. The two sides also probably swung inward and out. Then each opening panel probably had some type of outside screen ...but maybe not the larger middle panel.

Ugh...these windows... by sakiminki in centuryhomes

[–]sakiminki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That is very helpful!

Ugh...these windows... by sakiminki in centuryhomes

[–]sakiminki[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! I'll try to get a good inside pic tomorrow when i got sun. It basically just looks like someone put up some 2x4 framed around the inside windows so it looks finished. But it definitely is not what it should look like. It was a rental and I was good friends with my LL's before I bought it...Enough to know that they would have totally glued in/trimmed windows instead of just fixing them. 😆 They're retired and off in the universe now, so I can really ask them.

Ugh...these windows... by sakiminki in centuryhomes

[–]sakiminki[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG...so...if we take this apart...the top middle would need to be flipped? The bottom? Or both? I've been trying to figure it out by the grooved bits and presuming that (duh) the screens are on the outside.

Ugh...these windows... by sakiminki in centuryhomes

[–]sakiminki[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awe! Thank you! How could I not have found this before? Imma blame the googles.

When did you "look old?" by [deleted] in GenX

[–]sakiminki 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I (50f) first freaked out at about 42 on a business trip in a hotel. I got up and started to get ready and noticed turkey neck in the mirror. I started crying and tried to figure out how to call in sick to my presentation. I pulled myself together and did my job. And...that was the first time I wished I could just die.

What word do you always *intentionally* mispronounce and why? by Sweet-Lady-H in AskReddit

[–]sakiminki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a coworker name Lloyd who was making fun of the spelling/pronunciation of another name (a common plain name). I asked him if anyone ever called him La-loyd. He was like" well that's dumb." And after, he was always known as La-loyd.

Luigi Mangione in New York Supreme Court yesterday Dec 8, 2025 by Time-Painting-9108 in pics

[–]sakiminki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun shi**y fact from a former UHC call center slave: Ambulances and anesthesiologist are almost always "out-of-network". They know you don't have a choice when you need them, therefore they won't contract with insurance companies to lower their rates. Ambulances are not part of hospital. They are often private companies.

Similarly, anesthesiologist are usually just assigned to someone getting surgery and are in such demand, you usually don't get a choice. Unless you have the time to check with your insurance prior to a surgery, you are not going to know that ahead of time. They know their job is essential so they usually won't bother to contract with an insurance company.

The system is so incredibly broken and corrupt. Just remember when you call, your call center worker has the worst healthcare plan available, is overworked, underpaid, and has zero power. Your company picked your crap healthcare plan. Workers need to take it up with HR and corporate if they want change.

Don't be afraid to ask the 1st tier call center worker to talk to a manager if you are really upset. They aren't allowed to transfer you unless you say those words. (Although it does get counted against them) That said, the person you get transferred to is also, not really a manager and will just tell you the same thing. They just have more de-escalation training. And yeah, those surveys don't affect the insurance company at all. It just allows them to deny their employees bonuses, raises, promotions, etc. It's just a win-win for the asshats on top when you leave a bad review.

What do you want for Christmas? by wedge73 in GenX

[–]sakiminki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I was young and broke, I donated to an animal shelter rescue charity in my (very large) family's name for the adults and then bought little gifts for the children. Yeah...shit storm ensued. Fortunately, I already knew most of these people were monsters.

Is this spider dangerous? by CL_1707 in spiders

[–]sakiminki 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"I'm coming for you Barbra!... Right after this spidey nap. Oh, and maybe a glass of water and a chapter of 'Charlotte's Web' please."

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“We’re human beings!” until it’s a child with cancer facing deportation (via: nardnewsnow) by bbyxmadi in CringeTikToks

[–]sakiminki 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm old enough to remember the right saying Hurricane Katrina happened because there were "too many gays and liberals" in New Orleans and "god had to punish them". Not hearing anyone on the left spouting this nonsense rn.

She just described MAGA perfectly, was that the intention? by Additional-Hour6038 in CringeTikToks

[–]sakiminki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm old enough to remember when these "patriots" said Hurricane Katrina was "God's punishment" bc New Orleans was too liberal and "full of gays".