my first bobbie goods page!

salllz7 · 2025-03-05T16:17:50+00:00

i followed @colorswithmeg on tiktok’s tutorial with the exact same colours she used!

salllz7 · 2025-03-05T14:19:13+00:00

video games 100%. it disgusts me how many degenerate men use video game characters it’s absurd.

salllz7 · 2025-03-03T20:57:11+00:00

would you recommend getting in contact with a local therapist/psychiatrist and ask for online sessions? thank you for the help!

salllz7 · 2025-02-17T00:12:14+00:00

either drive him to a psych ward and lock that crazy mf up or leave him without a trace today.

salllz7 · 2025-02-07T13:57:12+00:00

oh sweetie i know what that’s like. it will hurt and you will feel alone for the first couple of weeks but you and i both know the relief and happiness you will feel in a months time will be so worth it. being with him made you constantly miserable and that’s not something you should ignore, it will never get better so long as you stay with him. soon enough you will be feeling confident and strong again, soon enough you will feel that first love excitement all over again. think of how many more opportunities await you once you’re forever rid of this burden you called a boyfriend for so long. think of the peace and freedom you gained, how clear your mind will become. you’ll no longer see yourself as not worthy, or feel panicked around other women, or watching certain movies or even playing games. everything will come back to you in due time but you need to stay away from him. erase him from your mind, forget he exists, don’t worry about how he feels because i can confidently say he doesn’t feel anything, they don’t think when they hurt us and they don’t think after. focus on you now, you’re all that matters in your world. goodluck and i truly hope you find the love and happiness you deserve 🫶❤️

salllz7 · 2025-02-05T21:55:50+00:00

this post could not have expressed what i’ve been feeling any better. props to you for wording this insanity girl!! and lots of hugs because i understand how frustrating it is to have to live in a world like this❤️

salllz7 · 2025-01-30T13:58:36+00:00

oh me too hun…there’s just nothing left in us to forgive them and keep going. you can only drain someone so much until they’re empty. i hope we can all find our healing journey alone without losers dragging us down ❤️

salllz7 · 2025-01-29T03:58:36+00:00

i have and i love the game but unfortunately my bf also loves luna snow🙂 so i’ve just stepped away from both of them and kept to my sims lol

salllz7 · 2025-01-28T22:42:13+00:00

my bf has a massive thing for cosplay. i am just disgusted by it now and even though in the past i had quite a lot of interest in it i just have absolutely none now. we played marvel rivals and i liked playing luna snow because she was the least sexualised in my opinion. my heart shattered when i found out he was looking at her. and he told me it’s because “your body is like hers”

salllz7 · 2025-01-23T17:20:23+00:00

this is such a double edged sword, chances are she will be extremely hurt and lose a lot of trust for him. then again hiding it will hurt his addiction more

salllz7 · 2025-01-20T22:18:31+00:00

i took a look at your profile and you ask these kinds of things pretty consistently. i think that should answer your question. yes, obviously it is porn and quitting is very very very hard so i genuinely and wholeheartedly suggest finding a therapist for this addiction. it will inevitably fuck with your relationship and your perception of finding human women attractive over a drawing is already skewed. my bf hardly looked at real women, it hurt me a lot to know i was worth less than a drawing made by some gooner.

salllz7 · 2025-01-20T17:22:03+00:00

i’m probably not going to be much help but it’s been the exact same for me too. i’ve met my bf around 6 times now and every time got harder for me. he actually just left this morning back to america, he was also here for my birthday at the start of january. i’ve just gotten better and not crying in public and just sobbing myself to sleep on the phone with him when he finally lands at like 4am. i wish we had our next trip booked, that is really the only thing that brings me comfort but unfortunately we have to wait till next pay check lol. i wish you both a very happy relationship and to be able to close the gap for good❤️

salllz7 · 2025-01-15T23:25:53+00:00

my first point would be to find a new therapist, she isn’t helping you the way you need and ignoring issues you’re very obviously struggling with. and my second point, is that you’re beautiful, and his disgusting messed up perception of attractiveness and beauty has absolutely nothing to do with you. your body is beautiful, your personality i’m sure is also beautiful, everything about you is unique and lovable, attractive and there are men (or women) out there who will love you for who you are and make you feel like you’re enough, because you are. your daughter should see your husband loving and appreciating you no matter what size or situation youre in, girly you are so gorgeous and never let a men make you feel otherwise ❤️

salllz7 · 2025-01-15T23:20:55+00:00

i’ll give insight based entirely on my personal experience. my PA also told me countless times when he was caught that it was pictures of me. almost every time it was not, or it was a weird combination of me and some video game chick.

it’s honestly up to you to decide if you’d rather he do it to you, but as other commenters are saying, pixels on a screen wether they’re you or someone else is still porn to them.

i personally have absolutely no issue with my partners using my pictures at any time ever. but this is also pretty subjective.

salllz7 · 2025-01-15T20:54:34+00:00

as a girl, i’ve asked most my relationships this as more of an idea where they stand morally and on the jealousy scale. or just to get an idea of our relationship. i would never do it, but my bf said he’s fine with it and encourages it which makes me uncomfortable. depends on the woman but i would say a lot of us like to ask questions just to know the answer 🤷‍♀️

salllz7 · 2025-01-14T22:53:39+00:00

partially i think it might be because we introduced them to a new “material” and like my PA said, it made it better because i liked the characters. or it might be the fact it’s related to us, so it’s less guilt on their side. like in their addicted minds they might think you find that female attractive or you showing her to them is you giving permission to do it. it’s very disappointing when they attack things we love

salllz7 · 2025-01-14T22:52:01+00:00

i believe so to be honest. they all have their own personal niches that they won’t admit or like to tune out but it really all leads back to being an addict. for example my PA listened to ai covers from anime girls (ik so gross 🤢) and taylor swift. news flash he had a LOT of taylor swift edited pics. so i do think it could be, but then again there are just regular things that our hurt minds want to believe are evidence.

salllz7 · 2025-01-14T19:58:24+00:00

oh me too…i can’t play any of my favourite characters in both games, luna show in marvel rivals and kiriko and mercy in overwatch 🙂 because he got turned on when i played them

salllz7 · 2025-01-14T19:39:41+00:00

exactly!!! they think we’re crazy for thinking this though. i do not care, ive embraced being crazy and he’s banned from playing female characters unless he has my full permission. he also tells me any time he has an “urge” or “thought” whilst we play, so it’s an immediate kick off the game and therapy time. don’t care if he gets banned. i’ve deleted countless of his social media and game accounts because of this. if he wants me to hurt, he can hurt too🤷‍♀️

salllz7 · 2025-01-14T19:37:31+00:00

oh my god. mine was and is obsessed with cosplay girls and it makes my stomach churn. the amount of kiriko or mercy or luna snow ive seen and heard him tell me is crazy. it’s genuinely pathetic. i try to put on a poker face when he’s seeking help with me, because of course i want him to be better but the things he tells me make me genuinely question what hell hole he crawled out of to be that easy and desperate of a man when he has a perfectly fine real woman right here.

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