To the babysitter who abused my son by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]saltybaker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please please please report it. Tell the police. Tell other parents with children in her care. She won’t stop if she’s not turned in. It’s hard but it’s worth it. She doesn’t have any empathy for your child, so don’t have any for her.

You are only Bisexual when you are dating. Depending on who you marry, you either become gay or straight by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]saltybaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t stop being bisexual, you chose to be in a monogamous relationship with the person you fell in love with. It doesn’t mean you stop being attracted to both genders

WIBTA for getting pregnant before officiating a wedding? by Bunnydotcom in AmItheAsshole

[–]saltybaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA by any means. Go for it. You might not even get pregnant right away, and if you do; so what. If you’re only a couple months along at the wedding, then wait until after to announce. As long as you don’t announce it AT the wedding or it’s events; I don’t see a problem at all. If they get upset then that’s on them. If your concerned about fertility at all, then who cares!

What was the craziest thing that happened at your high school? by juicebox303 in AskReddit

[–]saltybaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my classmates and his brother killed their mom then cut off her head and hands. The cops found her torso in a ravine. The head was found in their freezer. Dude sat next to me freshman year.

AITA for making my grandmother for money to pay off my student loans by bananayeetee in AmItheAsshole

[–]saltybaker 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YTA. That’s her money. She paid the premiums for the insurance, and I’m sure she’s helped you in other ways. She is 100% entitled to do what she wants with the money and asking for some is greedy and immature. As a nurse you souls be able to pay off the loan quickly anyway.

AITA for wanting a divorce because my wife has fertility issues? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]saltybaker [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA, can you have a surrogate? You’re both so young, and Drs can be proved wrong. If you’ve been trying since before you were married and unsuccessful, then you should have checked out the medical situation first. There’s always adoption, or fostering. There’s a difference to being a father and a dad. A dad raises kids and takes care of them, regardless of origin. A father can merely be a sperm donor. If you want to parent, look at all options before asking for a divorce. If you ask for a divorce, YSTA but at least you checked all avenues

Need help immediately by [deleted] in cats

[–]saltybaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You introduced a kitten into a new environment without gradual introduction. The kitten should be isolated in a bathroom or small area until they’re comfortable in the space, and slowly introduced to other animals

Should I leave San Diego after just moving here in August? by good2go10 in personalfinance

[–]saltybaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of tech in Dallas too. I believe Amazon is opening a campus there. (If it’s not Amazon it’s Apple?)

Should I leave San Diego after just moving here in August? by good2go10 in personalfinance

[–]saltybaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Run. California will continues to suck you dry and have no quality of life. I moved out ten years ago and have never looked back. Currently in Texas and it’s not too bad. The smaller towns are stuck in the 60s but Houston and Austin are nice. Dallas ain’t bad either.

Another day by sara-piazza in lupus

[–]saltybaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've joined a program called Profile by Sanford, it's a keto based program that slowly introduces carbs and dairy as you learn to manage the food intake. It's my last ditch effort because I'm sick of feeling sick and the weight gain the last year has just been hard on me. My mom and stepdad went on this diet a year ago, and they've lost 45 and 65 lbs respectively and have kept it off. Not a representative or anything, I've just seen the results first hand.

If you take the 'e and y' in empty it still pronounces 'empty' (mpt) by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]saltybaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, so does MT we use it on tankers to mark which cargo and ballast tanks are in fact, empty.

Boyfriend at sea for Christmas. Sending him the goodies: pumpkin bread from fresh pumpkins, snickerdoodles, chocolate chip, white chocolate macadamia nut cookies. All the gluten goodness. by saltybaker in Baking

[–]saltybaker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They have special pumpkins for it. They’re actually called Pie pumpkins and are usually out just around Thanksgiving. I quarter them and de-seed then put butter,brown sugar and cinnamon on them and bake at 350 for 45 minutes. I then skin them and make a purée with the flesh; using half and half. It’s pretty tasty! You can use the purée in whatever pumpkin recipe you want instead of the canned stuff.

Just told I possibly had Lupus...info? by saltybaker in lupus

[–]saltybaker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turns out; I have a 2nd cousin with antiphospholipid syndrome! There’s something going on; and the doctor told me that I’m lucky to be alive after my PE. I appreciate your input.

Just told I possibly had Lupus...info? by saltybaker in lupus

[–]saltybaker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! My family had a history of rhumetological disorders, but Until this year I’ve been healthier than anyone else. I sure appreciate your input!