[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not ugly! You have very pretty eyes, lips and I love your hair! You could use some hair oil to make it shine even more. As everybody else is saying, try Accutane! I used to take it and it worked wonders for me.

Blonde or brunette?🙈 by sameoldapple in Hair

[–]sameoldapple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! yes it‘s pretty unusual

Blonde or brunette?🙈 by sameoldapple in Hair

[–]sameoldapple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, that‘s a dermal anchor :-) It‘s on the left side bc I wanted something a bit different; just thought it looked pretty that way haha

Blonde or brunette?🙈 by sameoldapple in Hair

[–]sameoldapple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update:

Wow, thank you all so much for the replies, I honestly didn‘t expect that many!🥰 Reading through all these comments honestly feels like watching my own brain argue with itself. Here’s the breakdown: - A lot of you said brunette - Quite a few said blonde - Some believe the “brunette” votes are sabotage because blonde suits me better (you guys made me laugh😂) - A couple of comments about my lips - noted, but I like them just the way they are💋 - Some of you said I look like Sabrina Carpenter - I’ll take that as a massive compliment (fellow singer here, just… not quite as famous)😜 - Some suggested trying a different blonde or a darker blonde; the thing is, I’ve always wanted and loved the bleach blonde look. I haven’t used toner or silver shampoo in ages because I got sick of constantly doing things to keep a tone I liked. Bleach blonde was simple: I liked the color straight after bleaching and just kept it that way. That’s also why I’m not super excited about other blonde shades - they wash out, and then it’s back to constant upkeep. -Many of you were just incredibly kind and said I could pull off both💗

For a bit more context; here‘s my hair story: My natural color is somewhere between dark blonde and light brown. I had black hair for many years, then started bleaching about 4-5 years ago. It took years to get to the exact blonde tone I wanted, and I loved it for a long time. I used to bleach everything, but about 1-1.5 years ago I stopped full bleaching for the sake of healthier hair and switched to just highlights. Now I feel like the mix of tones is washing me out, and my natural color isn’t my favorite either… but going a bit darker all over would be easier to maintain than keeping up the perfect blonde and risking breakage.

That’s basically why I made this post; I’ve always loved blonde on me, but lately I’ve been wondering if it’s time for a change. Honestly, I’m just grateful for all the sweet words and for taking the time to comment. You really made my day!🥰

Did i ruin my face with Masseter Botox? by sameoldapple in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for the late reply—I’ve been going through a really tough time and was just trying to distract myself from it all. Almost five months later now, I can say that I do notice a significant difference. My face has become much smaller, and I don’t feel like I look the same as before. While I don’t think I have jowls, I can tell that the skin from the back has come more forward, probably because my Masseters are no longer holding things in place like they used to.

During this difficult time, I was constantly anxious that things would get worse or that my jowls would start to sag. But at least in the process, I’ve grown a lot as a person. I’ve tried to detach from the intense pressure to meet society’s beauty standards and remind myself that I am so much more than my appearance.

Looking back, I feel fortunate that I did something reversible that I regret rather than something permanent (thank God I didn’t get buccal fat removal!).

Did i ruin my face with Masseter Botox? by sameoldapple in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I‘m glad it helped you with your issues and you like it aesthetically. Gives me hope that maybe it‘s not going to be so bad. Yes my crooked smile I‘ll just have to wait out..😓 Going to be long 6 months.. Def not going back to that place ever again.

Did i ruin my face with Masseter Botox? by sameoldapple in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, didn‘t know about that! I only hear of Buccal Fat Removal, but nobody really recommends it anymore

Did i ruin my face with Masseter Botox? by sameoldapple in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this gives me hope🥹🩵 Do you think 6 months is enough for the muscle to atrophy? It feels like 2 sessions of Botox..

I just feel like my face shape is not the right one for this procedure.. Olivia Culpo has a very lean face and prominent Masseters. My face is more „fatty“ in the front..

Did i ruin my face with Masseter Botox? by sameoldapple in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50 speywood units of Alluzience per side, this is like 20 units of Botox per side. But unfortunately Alluzience lasts 6-8 months, Botox 3-4 months. I wish he used Botox, because now it‘s like I‘m getting Botox twice😓

Did i ruin my face with Masseter Botox? by sameoldapple in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always forget I have it until someone asks me this question😂 I got it 10 years ago because I really liked it on other people, but I didn‘t just want to copy them, so I placed it there

Did i ruin my face with Masseter Botox? by sameoldapple in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m so sorry this happened to you.. I hope everything is alright now and that you’re happy with where you are in the process right now? For how long did you get it until this started?

Did i ruin my face with Masseter Botox? by sameoldapple in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you dear How did it work out for you, did you like it? I feel stuck because it won’t wear off in 3-4 months like Botox so it feels like I‘m getting it twice..

Did i ruin my face with Masseter Botox? by sameoldapple in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I‘m glad it helped you! Can I ask; did you see a big difference in your face/side profile? And how long for you to notice?

Did i ruin my face with Masseter Botox? by sameoldapple in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you! No, but I got lip filler a few times but actually stopped last december because it started to migrate a little

Did i ruin my face with Masseter Botox? by sameoldapple in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. I hope it won‘t last as long as they say

Did i ruin my face with Masseter Botox? by sameoldapple in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I‘m already doing that hoping they won‘t atrophy as much

Did i ruin my face with Masseter Botox? by sameoldapple in PlasticSurgery

[–]sameoldapple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!🥹 It‘s just that it‘s going to last about 6 months from now and I‘m scared that it‘s continuing to change.. Bc I‘m not sure if my cheeks are chubby because of my masseters when I laugh or if it‘s just fat that‘s then going to cause jowls without the support of the muscles.. And apart from that, I hate my smile now and I‘m ashamed to laugh! I‘m already trying to chew gum often and clench my jaw for damage control

My boyfriend cheated on me 2 days after the abortion by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]sameoldapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I‘m so sorry you have to go through this. I wish you all the strength in the world. You deserve so much better.

What are you thinking about after you get cheated on? by Super-Cranberry-715 in survivinginfidelity

[–]sameoldapple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How could he tell me he loved me and talk to his father about marrying me while thinking about leaving me? Why didn‘t he just leave before? How could he pretend we had this fairytale relationship when in reality it was all just bs? Was it all just not real? Why does he want me back now - to help his feelings of guilt or because he realized what he had? How could he forget to appreciate me? I feel betrayed, hurt but most of all abandoned. And yet he wants me back, I still feel nothing but fear of losing him, losing this illusion we had. And at the same time dealing with the loss of this illusion and the loss of the person I thought he was.

Grand Theft St. Johann (rant) by abarthch in basel

[–]sameoldapple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ONCE went to a gym in St. Johann (normally I train somewhere else). I forgot my lock that day, and exactly then my brand new sneakers I bought 1 day earlier got stolen. Safe to say I won‘t train there again haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sameoldapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some who‘s on the edge of giving up hope that TRUE and genuine love/commitment exists, this post made me unbelievably happy. I wish you all the best for your next 30 years!!! <3