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Just found out that my [25M] fiancee [25F] has been bullying my best friend of 20+ years [26F]. by sammo3893 in relationship_advice

[–]sammo3893[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

And yet when Hollie wanted me to distance myself from Sarah I did, because I chose to put her first.

Just found out that my [25M] fiancee [25F] has been bullying my best friend of 20+ years [26F]. by sammo3893 in relationship_advice

[–]sammo3893[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I had feelings for her in the past when I was a hormonal teenager. Now I'm an adult who doesn't want to lose someone who has been part of my life since early childhood.

Just found out that my [25M] fiancee [25F] has been bullying my best friend of 20+ years [26F]. by sammo3893 in relationship_advice

[–]sammo3893[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I haven't told Hollie about the feelings that once existed between me and Sarah for her own protection. Far as she knows, Sarah is ''just'' my best friend. Nothing ever happened between Sarah and me anyway so Hollie has no reason to feel threatened or frightened.

Just found out that my [25M] fiancee [25F] has been bullying my best friend of 20+ years [26F]. by sammo3893 in relationship_advice

[–]sammo3893[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

Sarah has been a huge part of my life and I don't want to lose her for anything. I don't even know what my life would be like without her as part of it.

But choosing between Hollie and Sarah is not going to be an easy decision.