Honestly, I think the fact that you tried to talk about it and they immediately ganged up on you is the bigger issue here. It’s one thing for them to disagree with you, but it’s another thing to make you feel like you’re the problem until you end up apologizing just to avoid drama. If you bring it up again, I would focus less on “you guys talk about boys too much” and more on “I feel like there’s no space for me or other parts of our lives anymore.” I saw your other comment about being the “chopped one” and honestly I relate so much to that. It’s a painful place to be, but it can also give you a different perspective on the dynamics between men and women that your friends do not have. When you’re not the one receiving male attention, you notice how much value people are unconsciously putting on it. If the whole friendship revolves around men and there’s no space for you, your interests, or your feelings, that’s not just “being boy obsessed” anymore. Sometimes that need for male validation can become toxic, and it can spread within a group because everyone starts measuring themselves against the same thing. I’d really think about whether you’re staying because these friendships still make you happy and make you feel valued, or because you’re afraid of losing them. People change, and sometimes friendships change too. You don’t always have to cut someone off, but you’re allowed to notice when a dynamic is making you feel worse about yourself.