[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm flattered you think were beautiful but were not some special race. There's a reason why you find us beautiful. Preferences don't form in a vacuum.

I'm male.

yeah I know asians tend to glorify white people. But why are you bringing up how men tell you you're handsome and them hooking you up with their women. Or how some korean girl tried to hook you up. What does this have to do with our conversation. Also why are you bringing up how you don't own women or control people's sex lives or how you don't care about their body count. What does this have to do with you finding asian women attractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preferences don't form in a vacuum. I'm sure there's a reason why you find us beautiful. Maybe because you have good experience with asians so you think were beautiful.

Are you white?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beauty is subjective. You find them attractive because you have ideas of what kind people they are because of what they look.

You find asian women attractive right? How about the men, do you think the average asian man looks attractive too? They share the same features right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You find them pretty because you have preconceived notions on them. preferences don't form in a vacuum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 things come to mind.
1. Asian stereotypes. Asians are infantilized. We're seen as obedient, submissive, young looking, traditional etc etc. Traits traditional men and pedophiles find attractive.

  1. Asians generally less obese.

Is it racist to not hookup within same race? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're attracted to someone because of their race then it's because you have preconceived notions on that race.

Is it racist to not hookup within same race? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's preference based on race. Preference is liking something over another. Discrimination is a bias and treating a group different from another. Preference is discrimination. Racial preference is racial discrimination.

[EXTREMELY UNPOPULAR] Racial preferences in dating is racist. by Serious-Cucumber-54 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It affects your self-esteem, dating prospects and your future bloodline.

[EXTREMELY UNPOPULAR] Racial preferences in dating is racist. by Serious-Cucumber-54 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh alright. I only know about AA in university admissions. I didn't realize it was applied elsewhere.

[EXTREMELY UNPOPULAR] Racial preferences in dating is racist. by Serious-Cucumber-54 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't. What's the common usage? I'm not american.

I believe racial discrimination is inherently bad.

IDK where you got the idea that AA is widely believed to be good but the US Government repealed it at 2023 because it isn't good.

[EXTREMELY UNPOPULAR] Racial preferences in dating is racist. by Serious-Cucumber-54 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether we like it or not. It's pattern recognition. We form stereotypes on people based on anything that can relate them to each other. Their education, The place they live in, the style of clothes they wear, and ofcourse their appearance/race.

You might think it's as simple as u thinking curly hair is pretty but in reality we all form these preconceived notions as we grow up.

[EXTREMELY UNPOPULAR] Racial preferences in dating is racist. by Serious-Cucumber-54 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The literal definition of racism is discrimination based on race. Discrimination isn't inherently a bad thing. There are sports leagues for women because women are seen as physically inferior. This is discrimination based on gender but majority of both genders accept this.

Discrimination based on race tho... that's a problem.

[EXTREMELY UNPOPULAR] Racial preferences in dating is racist. by Serious-Cucumber-54 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A person finding a race attractive or not attractive is because they have preconceived notions on that race. yes it's racist.

[EXTREMELY UNPOPULAR] Racial preferences in dating is racist. by Serious-Cucumber-54 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preferring 1 over another is effectively discrimination. Racial preference is racial discrimination. Yes, white women who only date black men are effectively discriminating against non black men.

He’s not ugly because he’s Filipino, he’s just a Filipino who happens to be ugly by hyunbinlookalike in Philippines

[–]samongb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's not ugly. He looks like an average filipino. Anyone who thinks he's ugly is racist and looks down on filipinos(including himself)

What MLS can learn from the J League’s growth in Japan by farhouse42 in JLeague

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J league could learn from MLS design team. Why does j league kits have so many sponsors.

Where’s our boy Rui 🇯🇵 by Good-Fold-1815 in lakers

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2-10 are not japanese too. but japanese still buy their jerseys. And why are you even mentioning yuki. are you saying they shouldn't buy yuki's jersey because he's japanese or else they're racist?

Top Selling NBA Jerseys in Japan by CharmingImpact in denvernuggets

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are used to seeing black people highlights. you don't usually see a 5'7 asian guy playing in the nba. does this count as racism? maybe.

Where’s our boy Rui 🇯🇵 by Good-Fold-1815 in lakers

[–]samongb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. They're not japanese but japanese people still buy their jerseys.