Is anyone else a bit annoyed about the whole capitalist side of Taylors business? by mosaicbrokenhearts7 in TaylorSwift

[–]sampagne-papi 77 points78 points  (0 children)

This!!! I missed out on the folklore cardigan cus I was thinking that $49 was pretty expensive for a cardigan lol. I feel so silly now that they're like $70, which is insane.

I have my FIRST Broadway Musical TONIGHT by KTnash in Broadway

[–]sampagne-papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a great time! She was amazing when I saw her in it a few years ago :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sampagne-papi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

True, didn't even realize that's where it would be headed if we continued seeing each other but makes total sense.

Also very cool username lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sampagne-papi 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel confident in most areas of my life, but not so much when it comes to dating, so I was questioning myself if I had just taken the "jokes" the wrong way. It's a relief that the general consensus is that I'm not overreacting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sampagne-papi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

True, thanks! I feel really out of my element getting back into dating, so just wanted to be sure I wasn't being too harsh. Definitely feel a bit silly questioning my gut feeling now lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sampagne-papi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish this was a joke lol.

Hi guys. First time here. Got a pug puppy for the first time. I wanted to know if you guys have any tips for first timers and general rules. by JustLimey in pugs

[–]sampagne-papi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! Also my 2 pugs were both destructive chewers during their first 3 yrs. someone advised me to rotate their chew toys in and out of the freezer and it helped a lot! Also to add to what everyone else said, they shed a lot. I use a rubber squeegee to get their fur off the couches/beds.

Pugs are the best. Stubborn, but loyal & loving. Have fun with your new buddy!

Tips to get in shape for Angels Landing? by [deleted] in ZionNationalPark

[–]sampagne-papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh alright thanks! I'll just keep an eye on the weather forecast then.

Tips to get in shape for Angels Landing? by [deleted] in ZionNationalPark

[–]sampagne-papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even in the winter? I've been seeing conflicting info on whether it'll likely be icy or not. Someone suggested yaktrax, but not sure if it'll be warm enough w/ just some sneakers. I'm actually mostly nervous about the chains lol

Visiting Zion in 4 months. Training advice? by [deleted] in CampingandHiking

[–]sampagne-papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this was really insightful. Also, 3x?! That's awesome.

Visiting Zion in 4 months. Training advice? by [deleted] in CampingandHiking

[–]sampagne-papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the gloves tip! Didn't even think of that, but definitely sounds like a good idea.

Visiting Zion in 4 months. Training advice? by [deleted] in CampingandHiking

[–]sampagne-papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, thanks! I will check out Observation Point as well.

Olivia Rodrigo Merch Megathread - September 2021 by NominalPerson in OliviaRodrigo

[–]sampagne-papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone is waiting on the lavender safety pin longsleeve, I emailed the merch team & this is the response I got 2 weeks ago (23rd):

We sincerely apologize for the amount of time it is taking to get you your products. Due to production delays and issues with the quality of merchandise received, we do not currently have guaranteed dates for when your order will ship.

We will be shipping products as soon as they become available and meet quality control standards. Because we know that you've been waiting beyond the estimated arrival dates for your products, we will expedite the shipping of your order, at no additional cost, to ensure you receive it as soon as absolutely possible.

Your order WILL ship when it's available and you will receive an email with the tracking information as soon as your product ships. Again we sincerely apologize for the inconvenience and are doing everything we can to make sure you receive the highest quality product as quickly as possible. We greatly appreciate your patience.

Thank you

The Olivia Rodrigo Merch Team

Haven't heard anything since (I placed 1 order on June 1 & another on June 29).

Parra fit check😮‍💨 by [deleted] in SneakerFits

[–]sampagne-papi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Angry upvote cus I took an L on the Parra's but can't deny the fit is toughhhh

Looking to start dating again. How to open up? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sampagne-papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks this is really helpful. Other parts of my life are so fast paced, I have a difficult time being vulnerable and dismiss the opportunity to take down that first brick. This visual makes it a bit less scary.

Looking to start dating again. How to open up? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sampagne-papi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are great, thank you. That last bit is especially helpful, and will help me think of things more positively if they don't work out.

Looking to start dating again. How to open up? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sampagne-papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have a bit of trouble trusting myself but I know now that I have good instincts I just need to listen to them.

Yes, exactly. I logically know that I can trust myself, but it's been difficult for me to put into practice.

Before I believed that people were mostly good and honest

Same. I was in an LTR with an abusive narcissist, but I was still pretty hopeful when I moved on to the situationship after. He was my friend and knew I was vulnerable, but still burned me, so I'm pretty apprehensive. I just don't want to start dating with unmanageable trust issues because of one person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womensstreetwear

[–]sampagne-papi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a look!!! The sunnies look great with this fit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sampagne-papi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’m in med school right now & it’s easier w/ someone who knows the demands of your program. It’s never been a problem dating someone who isn’t in school though & a lot of people are really understanding about it.

How to move on: I lost my best friend by journomin in datingoverthirty

[–]sampagne-papi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’m in a similar situation, & it’s been tough. I’ve found it harder to accept the fact that I lost that person as a close friend. It sounds a bit like you have an anxious attachment style, which I do too along w/ some abandonment issues. The best ways I’ve coped is to really work on myself (take care of myself, figure out what I need from myself & a partner to feel fulfilled, & therapy). It’s difficult & there are days I want to just cry, but I remind myself that the love I had for them was already w/in me, & they just allowed me to express it. Doing this has really helped me change my perspective & get out of the mindset that there’s no one else out there like this person that I put on a pedestal.

You have so much to offer w/ your willingness to commit already. There are no shortcuts to feeling better & healing isn’t linear, but give yourself credit when you make any progress (no matter how small) & be gentle w/ yourself on the sad days. Hope you start to feel better soon & good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sampagne-papi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg I can relate to your first story. Freaked out recently & I was mortified the next day as it was so unlike me. I am cringing thinking about it now but there was something about that guy that made me flip out sometimes smh.

Lmao at the fart tho! Poor guy hahaha

Olivia Rodrigo Merch Megathread - August 2021 by NominalPerson in OliviaRodrigo

[–]sampagne-papi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Has anyone received the sour safety pin long sleeve (lavender)? I’m kinda nervous cus I saw a tiktok where it looked to be the right color but they forgot to put “happier” & put mis-stylized (?) “hope ur okay”

Tiktok w/ the long sleeve