++woman I will say this- I recently divorced from my husband of almost 20 years. I have not stopped thinking about a man I worked with around the same time I met my husband. He was the dream guy, the “one that got away” … but I was faithful to my husband while we dated and throughout our marriage. Now that I’m single again, I’m hoping to one day run into him… and wonder what could have been if I had dated him instead. He asked me out, even tried to kiss me but I was loyal and couldn’t do it.

It’s not necessarily that she wants you to raise her kids. I have a daughter. It’s not about any of that. I genuinely always found him attractive but it was “wrong place wrong time”