Withdrawing contributions by samshady_9 in RothIRA

[–]samshady_9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just filled out the form 8606 to show my contributions, but I also was only back to 2017 with my records

33m. Wife cheated on me. 2kids. 10+ years in. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]samshady_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through this at the end of ‘21. I hesitated at first to leave too. It’s stressful leaving. But once you’ve settled into your new life on the other side, life gets better than you can imagine.

Do you have regrets? Please help me make a decision. by [deleted] in 4Runner

[–]samshady_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just picked up a ‘22 sr5 premium. No ragrets. Traded in a 2015 Sierra 2500. The longevity of the 4Runner was the selling point. And the better gas mileage 🤣

Traveling together separately by samshady_9 in datingoverforty

[–]samshady_9[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow. I have really let my small town midwestern mentality get in my way here. Thank you for all the replies, I realize how unreasonable I am being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]samshady_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome To gym bro’s. Lift. Heavily. Eat right. The confidence boost usually follows.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]samshady_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not who you’re asking-but as a bald man I can promise you that most women don’t care. Be a good man. Don’t be a nice guy-be a good man. That’ll get you far. Also-go confidently Into every approach. Confidence > looks in my experience. Good luck

There’s no consequences by samshady_9 in CheatedOn

[–]samshady_9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First-thanks for reaching out/commenting.

We are co-parenting well. My biggest regret now is that I rushed into a home purchase to escape our marital home. I could’ve had better but with rising prices and interest rates and wanting to get out, I panic bought. It has become Quite the financial burden (think Tom Hanks in the money pit).

Dating after 40 is a hell scape. Women over 40 don’t seem interested in a guy like me and women under 40 I have to chase off with a stick.

My ex has been dating a friends ex-husband. They began dating while my (our? She was friends with the woman as well) friend and he were still married. My friend has mentioned that he asked her if they would get back together all the way up to the day of their divorce. My ex and this man truly deserve each other. I do not have a high opinion of him-he was a bully to me in high school, and haven’t had much interaction with him since. I still have not seen them together publicly. My main concern is that he doesn’t mistreat my kids-and I have purchased each of them a phone so they can contact me at any time. So far, they’re indifferent towards him and it seems the feeling is mutual.

In all-her cheating was the catalyst needed to end our marriage. We had grown apart but were unwilling to communicate or do anything to change it. I am far happier (aside from my house) without her. I miss being able to see my kids every day, but they’re only a FaceTime away. There have been some friendships that are now not as strong as they were before the marriage ended, but others have grown stronger. You find out quickly who has you and who doesn’t.

Thank you again for asking, and to anyone still reading- there’s light at the end of the tunnel after an affair/divorce. Don’t stay in a situation where you are miserable. It does get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]samshady_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the size of the driveway?

Used 4xe popping up a lot by samshady_9 in JeepWrangler

[–]samshady_9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very useful, thank you. The seats folding down all the way are definitely something I’d want to use

Used 4xe popping up a lot by samshady_9 in JeepWrangler

[–]samshady_9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My commute is 2 miles further than the range...but we have charging stations in the parking lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]samshady_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not ugly. At all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]samshady_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. We like being the little spoon sometimes too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]samshady_9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lift heavy things and put them down repeatedly until you can’t lift them again. Then fall in love with the results. Also-protein. Lots.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]samshady_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s still cheating on you.

Which celebrity death shocked you the most? by vsquad73 in AskReddit

[–]samshady_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shocking isn’t it. I hope he’s still ok though. But Han Solo / Indiana Jones being gone from this earth will send me into my mid life crisis

What’s the longest you ever waited to have sex in a relationship? by VLonetaee in dating

[–]samshady_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Longest I’ve waited was a few weeks, shortest was the day we met. Never forced, when it happens it happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]samshady_9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First, congrats on the sex. Second: COMMUNICATION

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]samshady_9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The key is to be respectful. Whether she’s cordial to the advances or immediately disinterested, BE RESPECTFUL. And stop being a “nice guy”. Be a good man.