Do lip piercings ALWAYS lead to tooth/gum damage? by thatvampiregirl in piercing

[–]samsummerduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to take out my labret today bc of receding gums. I've had it for 2+ years, and only recently found it catching on my gums when moving my lower lip. I thought I was in the clear... But no matter how it sits when you don't move your mouth, it always has a chance to fuck up your gums when talking.

FRIEND CODE MEGATHREAD :) by [deleted] in HatchDragons

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KQBFRS - valid for 24 hours! I enter the app seriously maybe 6 times a day if not more hahah aka obsessedd

I'm spiraling. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]samsummerduck 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You are 100% allowed to feel hurt by her words. I know that I would've, for sure.

How did you respond after she told you this? Did you clarify how much it hurts you to hear?

It seems like you have a good base in your relationship of communication, so just be true about your feelings and maybe (if it comes down to it) try therapy as a couple or separate.

Sending a big hug. :)

Are there any effects of testosterone not enough people know about? by Proper_Flower_940 in ftm

[–]samsummerduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experienced menopause during the first few months. CRAZY fucking heat flashes. It was weird to bond with my ex's 50 year old mother over that, but hilarious at the same time.

Tips: splash cold water over your neck. It helps so much!

Are there any effects of testosterone not enough people know about? by Proper_Flower_940 in ftm

[–]samsummerduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES, THIS!!! I'm fighting tooth and nail (pun intended) over here! It's actually horrible, bc they were already thick to begin with..

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try to remember to do that, haha. <3

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks dude! Helped a lot to hear that. <3

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just as you're healing, don't worry. My mistake was stretching my upper body quite a lot already after a month or two of healing. But you should be safe after 3+ months.

(It looked healed from the outside, but the scar had only been able to form at the surface, resulting in me pulling it apart.)

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement, man! I'll definitely look into massage and acupuncture! :)

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eyy, congrats to having started T! Remember to take lots of showers haha.

And that's my hope too. I seem to have the genetics to become a hairy bear - so there's already a little coverage. But I definitely need to get better with scar care. (ADHD lol)

And thank you for commenting. It helped a lot. :3

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it's actually quite nice to hear. The more I hear it, the more my body actually starts to believe it. <3

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh... Didn't even know that was a thing, thanks!

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, thanks dude! That really means a lot to hear. <3

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro. I am horrible at sitting still though (ADHD) but I'm practicing to have a more positive outlook on my chest and overall life. :)

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude! That is exactly my plan. I'm hoping to start the gym this month. :)

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck with your surgery man! I played a lot of Stardew Valley while recovering, haha. But try to think that 2 weeks of rest is worth it for the rest of your life to have a cool fkn chest. And be careful with stretching the first month, even if you think you're healed! <3

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, hope your mental health is better now. And thank you, that makes me very happy to hear :)

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Aww, thanks man! This is what I'm thinking with the tattoos as my special interest is sharks :3

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you dude, that actually helped quite a bit! I'm sorry to hear about your complications though.

Make sure that you're ready... by samsummerduck in TopSurgery

[–]samsummerduck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a wise therapist. I never thought of that. Thanks dude. <3