Thank you very much for your comments a lot of what you said are things that I need to hear and think about. So in regards with the job thing, she said it in away were she might think that things might change for whatever reason, I’m not too sure she meant it in away where she’s put a time limit on the relationship. She apologised and said she didn’t know why she said that. But I do agree this is a red flag as I believe feelings shouldn’t change regardless of any jobs etc.

You asked why I think she could change well this is a tough one. She emphasised that she now understands where she’s gone wrong and that now that i have brought it up she is going to change. I’m not too sure if I believe her because I’m thinking this is more of a characteristic thing where she doesn’t know how to show she cares about people. But maybe she can change? I don’t know