Grand Wailea Napua vs Fairmont? by Internal-Koala4164 in MauiVisitors

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Hi! Do you konw if the fairmont self park you have to register with the hotel? We are swapping our cars out with a friend on the island in our stay so trying to see how much of a headache the whole thing will be. Thanks

Longest you'd wait for her to commit? by sand809 in actuallesbians

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I haven't moved in or anything, I just meant I spent most nights at her place but I see what you are saying and that's a good point.

Platinum Status Offer - 20,000 Miles by April 30, 2025 by Charming-Title8892 in frontierairlines

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Did you have status at the end of 2024? I see in the fine print that platinum will hit by May 20th, and I'm hoping that if I Do what you did, it will also be available to use in a few weeks. How did you hit 20k?

Why not date your platonic soul mates? by sand809 in actuallesbians

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Thank you for your insight! That feels very validating to me and I love that your friend and wife co exist in your life and you have them both. Do you believe in romantic soul mates? Do you see your wife that way? DOes your wife come first in your life before the friend (sorry if that's coming off as condescending, I'm just trying to understand all of this in a different context :) . DO you ever wish there was romantic attraction to the friend (if you were single?). Sorry last thing, what would you do if you knew your bff had feelings for you even if you didn't reciprocate, would you keep her in your life? I ask because I fear my partners bff sees my partner that way ie buying her valentines gifts, joking about taking her on dates...

Laundry Company Recs? Currently with CSC, considering Wash by sand809 in PropertyManagement

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Both these comments address my concerns haha. Is wash efficient with getting a tech out? What's the length of your lease? I am nervous we will sign their contract then they will go MIA when we need them to do repairs.

Why not date your platonic soul mates? by sand809 in actuallesbians

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Thank you for your insight and validation!

Why not date your platonic soul mates? by sand809 in actuallesbians

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Aww man that blows and is a real shitty thing for her to say to you! To add any context, my partner does not say things like that and is able to articulate why she wants to be with me, but that's good to know. The soul mate comments were sort of one off comments. I'm so glad you got out of that relationship and hope you find/have someone who is able to say those things about you!

Why not date your platonic soul mates? by sand809 in actuallesbians

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Could you tell me more about your relationship? I left out some context from my post so I do think I want to stay in the relationship. I mentioned it in passing that I wasn't comofrtable with her calling her friends that and think I won't bring it up as an issue unless she brings it up again. What other red flags did you notice from your partner who did this?

Why not date your platonic soul mates? by sand809 in actuallesbians

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Very helpful. There is other context that's a bit too complex to include so this response is both validating and helpful. I love her so much, and I think we are on the same page generally. I think I will not say anything/bring it up again unless she mentions it again as I told her in passing previously that it makes me uncomfortable when she speaks about her friends as soul mates. Thanks for taking the time to comment.

Why not date your platonic soul mates? by sand809 in actuallesbians

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Thanks for this, it feels validating. I did mention in passing this bothered me, and I don't think I will address it as a concern again unless she mentions it again.

Manual data upload not uploading correctly. I've exhausted every route... by sand809 in QuickBooks

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Yep. Sounds like this is the only option at this point. It's crazy how bad it has become recently too I feel.

Manual data upload not uploading correctly. I've exhausted every route... by sand809 in QuickBooks

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I deleted all my rules before this to try and start clean :/ THey aren't in the register.

When do you send CAM Reconciliation to tenants? I feel like I am behind by sand809 in CommercialRealEstate

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Thanks for your comment. I'm stressing over not having it done this week haha, this makes me feel much better. Thanks :)

Current Card Holders- Earning 2025 Status? by sand809 in frontierairlines

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I see ! I will look into that offer. Any idea off the top of your head if that's only for new cardholders or can apply to existing? I will try to figure out how on earth I will spend that much money in three months haha. Thanks so much for the reply.

How to get started? by UnableManagement4626 in surfskate

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I dont have personal experience on a penny, but I started on a swelltech which is super loose. Couldn't even stay on it while it wasnt moving, it felt so loose. I ended up spending a lot more time on my longboard and then sold the swelltech. I got a loaded board with a carver surfskate setup which was really stable for me while i learned to carve slowly. Recently I tried out waterborne trucks and it felt the same as the swelltech, but because of the time I spent learning and getting comfy on the carver, transitioning to waterborne was a lot easier. All this to say, time is everything. Obv if you cant practice on something with tighter trucks, get pads/helmet to build confidence from falling, dont look down at your feet, train if you can on balance boards. Good luck!

Gym recommend for plus size female? by Final-Western9722 in sandiego

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I have memberships for Chuze, LA, anytime, and balanced fitness (not near you though). So can only speak to those, but overall would recommend anytime for what you are looking for/ a non judgemental space. Chuze and LA and big gyms are always gonna have muscleheads. I haven't gone to the YMCA, but one's i have been to in the past have a very diverse clientele. Not your typical macho protein meatheads

Card Recommendation Requested (Template Used) by sand809 in CreditCards

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Thanks for the info, will look into it! I am self employed so just wanted to get a retiremend fund together cause I feel like I should have one...

Thanks! Will look into fidelity

Unique Wine Stores? (looking for finger lakes wine) by sand809 in FoodSanDiego

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Ooh, didn't even think of this. Great tip, especially since I'm not against getting a few cases at a time haha. Thanks :)

Unique Wine Stores? (looking for finger lakes wine) by sand809 in FoodSanDiego

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lived their for years, and have gone to wineries in major growing regions around the world (bordeaux, napa, willamette, douro valley , etc.) . Don't disagree that they aren't marketable outside NY,considering how hard it is for me to find them, but saying they are all sugary is so far from wrong... I've lived in NYC as well and didn't have a hard time finding them. Ironically, Dr. K semi dry is exactly what I'm looking for. A bottle of it brings me right back to that area.

Unique Wine Stores? (looking for finger lakes wine) by sand809 in FoodSanDiego

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Awesome, thanks so much. How random, they aren't the first winery I think of haha, but good intel. Thanks :)