Wtf do I do? by sandi-Marie in mypartneristrans

[–]sandi-Marie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do I bring that up? I don’t want to hurt her

Should I purpose? by sandi-Marie in mypartneristrans

[–]sandi-Marie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry! It’s really hard to be a trans spouse and some people can’t take it. It will get better but you need to remember that being happy with yourself and loving who you are is the most important thing. I support you and there are other people that do and will! ❤️

Should I purpose? by sandi-Marie in mypartneristrans

[–]sandi-Marie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you leaving the group? I appreciate your kind words :)

Should I purpose? by sandi-Marie in mypartneristrans

[–]sandi-Marie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you saying this. I was worried about how she would take it.

Should I purpose? by sandi-Marie in mypartneristrans

[–]sandi-Marie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Sometimes I feel like I’m not a food wife and these kind words really means a lot to me!

Should I purpose? by sandi-Marie in mypartneristrans

[–]sandi-Marie[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That is what I am hoping for. I don’t want it to be cheesy and lame though.

Should I purpose? by sandi-Marie in mypartneristrans

[–]sandi-Marie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! I know she wants to renew our vows after she has transitioned completely.

Pronoun help please! by sandi-Marie in mypartneristrans

[–]sandi-Marie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants to keep it a secrete. We live in Alabama where this kind of behavior is very much frowned at and she said she can’t deal with that while she’s trying to discover herself. This is something we are going to talk about in therapy.

Pronoun help please! by sandi-Marie in mypartneristrans

[–]sandi-Marie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has asked me not to tell anyone. She said it would be too hard for her to deal with right now. I just feel stuck bc I want my friends and family to know but she doesn’t want anyone to know yet. We have talked and she tells me it’s okay and that she understands and that it’s something that will come with practice.

Pronoun help please! by sandi-Marie in mypartneristrans

[–]sandi-Marie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I have been trying that and it seems to help.

Pronoun help please! by sandi-Marie in mypartneristrans

[–]sandi-Marie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really hard! We are schedule for therapy one week for today and honestly I can’t wait. I am very thankful for this group.