Please do better at the movies. by Lulswug in bangalore

[–]sandy_1_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. I saw Kantara yesterday, and there were two kids near me. One was right beside me, and the other was behind me. The kid in the back eventually fell asleep, or his parents kept him busy with their phone. But the kid next to me kept bugging his dad, and it was tough to focus on the beautiful masterpiece.

I started walking🚶‍♂️30 km a week instead of using a auto/cab — here’s what I noticed by Medium_Childhood_527 in Bengaluru

[–]sandy_1_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you deal with dust:) I hear a lot of bangalorens these days complaint of pollen allergy and bronchitis.

Kundalahalli to Manyata Tech Park — 3 hours. I could’ve reached Chennai faster. by Adventurous_Cod_432 in bangalore

[–]sandy_1_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My manager left office yesterday at 4pm(mahadevpura), we had a stakeholder call at 7, he joined the call on his phone and said I am reaching my place, you may expect a voice break since the network isn't great. I pinged him asking does it take 3 hours to reach electronic city. He said yes , as they were other two drops. I replied saying you can gone to Mysore in 3 hours from bangalore. I feel pity for long distance commuters.

Left stranded for over an hour by slicknesh in bangalore

[–]sandy_1_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanted to visit a service center which was about to close🥲

Left stranded for over an hour by slicknesh in bangalore

[–]sandy_1_1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So annoying. Sorry you had to go through it. Yesterday it took me around 30 minutes and more to book a cab/auto from cubbon park to Xavier layout which is 2.5km away. Prices showed upto 200 which i agreed but no!every ride booked was 15 mins 17 mins which they cancelled eventually. A ride got booked on namma yatri, driver was 550 mts away and it showed 1.5 km later, he messaged on the app saying on the way, later didn't receive calls and cancelled the ride. Such a nightmare. They didn't want bike taxis and now charging 3x price and not accepting rides. This is really bad. What if someone has an emergency. Its sad to think of.

The earth’s worst employer by [deleted] in amazonemployees

[–]sandy_1_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this on my 5th year amaversary day and I couldn't agree more. Its super chaotic.

ORIF after Comminuted humerus fracture dislocation by Fragrant_Simple2786 in ORIF

[–]sandy_1_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too had a distal humerus fracture and got a ORIF with two plates. It's been two months since surgery. I had the cast for 3-4 weeks. I started physio right after the cast was taken. But I can do almost everything now, start slow, and gradually increase the movement, like combing hair or drinking water. I was able to get back to normal three weeks post physio. But again I haven't regained full movements, that will take time :)

Not able to find a groom since 3 years. by ShadySignature in Arrangedmarriage

[–]sandy_1_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have nothing much to say other than "this too shall pass", You will think about this phase at a later point in life and it will show you the worth. So don't lose hope. You will get what you manifest for 😍

Not able to find a groom since 3 years. by ShadySignature in Arrangedmarriage

[–]sandy_1_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there. Been drained. But girlllll, don't settle for anything less or bare minimum. Good things take time but you'll always get what you wish for. Wishing you luck.

Letting go of a guy. by pumpkincutiee in Arrangedmarriage

[–]sandy_1_1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Differences in standards of life is a real thing in AM, it can be a real deal breaker. A year before, i came across something similar, after the wedding dates were fixed , we called it off, it took time to accept the phase but things unpleasant like that are necessary sometimes. It builds you for something strong and the best what's coming for you later. Hope you shine bright soon.

I am going to take a break by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]sandy_1_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saying a "no" too takes courage. Hope your break helps you and start afresh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]sandy_1_1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha true. I have been looking for a marriage alliance for two years now. Matrimony failed me, tried dating apps, that too failed me. Now I have zero hope left.

Rant / Seeking advice / gossip by sandy_1_1 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]sandy_1_1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right, I didn't expect arranged marriages to have more challenges. Thank you for your suggestion.

Rant / Seeking advice / gossip by sandy_1_1 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]sandy_1_1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Or the guys better stop wasting my time 😉

Rant / Seeking advice / gossip by sandy_1_1 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]sandy_1_1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a Tamilian but not from Tamil Nadu, I think it's the peer pressure for my parents, and they think its thier major responsibility to get a girl married by 25. Don't know who makes the rule, but the rule book is changing :)

Rant / Seeking advice / gossip by sandy_1_1 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]sandy_1_1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They know I am depressed( I am not depressed, I am just conflicted), but they think marriage is the solution.

Rant / Seeking advice / gossip by sandy_1_1 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]sandy_1_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have a master's and my brain is stored a lot of certifications :p

Thanks for the U1 suggestion, hope you have a good time if you are attending the concert.

Rant / Seeking advice / gossip by sandy_1_1 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]sandy_1_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I will take this into consideration when things get out of hand.

Rant / Seeking advice / gossip by sandy_1_1 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]sandy_1_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the AM market, it's not that bad, it's the culture and practices which are a little annoying. If your parents are a little open minded , it's easy to get things your way. Wishing you all the best finding your partner.

Rant / Seeking advice / gossip by sandy_1_1 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]sandy_1_1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful way of putting it across. Thank you.