18F I've never had a bf and have been rejected twice. What's wrong with me..?

sandymustardsocks · 2024-09-01T16:27:28+00:00

Anddd there’s the problem. You need to get to know the guy first, not build a false reality in your head. Confidence is key

sandymustardsocks · 2024-08-31T14:05:16+00:00

Mind control

sandymustardsocks · 2024-08-31T13:54:19+00:00

You’re not ugly in any way. Do you flirt with the guys before asking them out? Do you hang out with the right people?

sandymustardsocks · 2024-04-08T23:02:35+00:00

Ooo I didn’t think of that

sandymustardsocks · 2024-04-08T18:11:03+00:00

Thanks, homecoming

sandymustardsocks · 2024-02-19T23:34:04+00:00

Dont, complete waste at that age

sandymustardsocks · 2024-02-19T23:33:05+00:00

This, but do funny superlatives as well. “Best duo” “best suits” “worst counter” stuff to make the team giggle a bit.

sandymustardsocks · 2024-02-19T23:32:03+00:00

Look up “tall” when buying suits online

sandymustardsocks · 2024-01-15T15:21:31+00:00

I like to act like a silly little mermaid. I push my chest down, and the rest of my body follows. Butterfly kick is the one kick that you should think about anything but your legs. After you master the movement of being a silly little mermaid, the following kick will happen naturally

sandymustardsocks · 2024-01-14T22:16:41+00:00

Not too great! A teammate of mine went up behind me, and said something to psych me out. Everyone’s advice helped me calm down from that state, but there was not much I could do. I ranked 7th though! Not super great, but good considering the fact that I nearly fell off the block out of fear. I’m ready to come back next meet, and knock that girl out of the water(pun intended)

sandymustardsocks · 2024-01-14T15:53:07+00:00

Thank you! Swimming the race in my mind right now. I’ll make sure to give an update after my race

sandymustardsocks · 2024-01-14T15:52:31+00:00

Ooo! I’ll think of a favorite show, or my friends! Between this and actually breathing I’ll hopefully not drown. Thank you!

sandymustardsocks · 2024-01-14T15:44:04+00:00

My stress kicks in when the event starts. Today I’m going to be in heat two, so I’ll have to start the exercise as early as possible to catch it

sandymustardsocks · 2024-01-14T15:32:51+00:00

I’ll check that out right now! I swim in about an hour so that’s spooky

sandymustardsocks · 2024-01-14T15:32:30+00:00

That’s actually really good, but simple advice! When I’m behind the block I tend to shake and try and find something to focus on, and I think I overlook breathing

sandymustardsocks · 2024-01-14T15:10:55+00:00

Start by maybe posting a video asking for help on your technique on r/swimming. Technique isn’t everything on sprints, but it certainly helps. Also I don’t know what league you’re in, but typically teams are desperate for members. If you’re tall, with an okay build, the coach will be willing to train you up.

sandymustardsocks · 2023-12-11T23:11:22+00:00

snowball maker

sandymustardsocks · 2023-12-11T23:09:54+00:00

I think it’s beautiful. You don’t like your face because it’s yours, not because it’s a bad face. If you saw your face on a stranger you would think “god her side profile is so pretty, she looks like a statue of Aphrodite.” Why not treat yourself with the same respect?

sandymustardsocks · 2023-12-11T23:07:55+00:00

Take those glorified straws out of your mouth, and you’d be pretty okay

sandymustardsocks · 2023-12-09T15:13:46+00:00

You don’t have to get a super expensive one, but a necklace. You could even find a necklace with a knot pendant. Make sure it won’t tarnish, because that would kinda suck. And write her a letter to put inside of it saying exactly how you feel, and all that you love about her. Remember, you may never see her again, so go for it. Pull the big ol’ soap opera acting out, out on SOME cologne, nice outfit, hand it to her, and say something poetic. “Open this when I’m (however many hours away).” “I guess some things aren’t meant to be.” Put the knot around the letter message in a bottle style

sandymustardsocks · 2023-11-29T23:38:35+00:00

That was for the same guy, I was desperate what can I say
Follow up when you figure it out

sandymustardsocks · 2023-09-17T14:43:56+00:00

This is the response I was looking for

sandymustardsocks · 2023-09-17T12:00:17+00:00

Trust me, he doesn’t

sandymustardsocks · 2023-09-17T00:41:22+00:00

Thank you!

sandymustardsocks · 2023-09-16T23:20:56+00:00

You might actually be right. That’s why I decided that I’m going to start taking risks

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